"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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donjuanjovi

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Warboss Alex said:
Do you guys really think once you've got yourself a 500lb bench, a 500lb squat and 500lb deadlift that your physique isn't gonna be complete? These kinda posts border on overthinking, which in time will result in you guys adding in more exercises to your program and making it go balls-up.. concentrate on the basics. Powerlifters concentrate on getting stronger on the three main lifts and when they diet down, there's no glaring gaps in their musculature.
This post reminded me of Eric Cressey's last article. It's a good read. (It's not gay porn)

http://www.t-nation.com/readTopic.do?id=1535867
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Kwello,

You can have a smaller, but still complete, physique with a 300lb bench/squat/deadlift. You missed the point, which was that doing the basic compound exercises will fill out EVERY part of your physique without a need for isolating stuff like rear delts, traps, neck etc.

If you have a strong bench, are you JUST gonna have a strong/big chest? No, you'll have big shoulders, big triceps, big lats, big traps - all of these are involved in benching and progressive

And you're saying that the adductors/abductors don't get worked if you squat? What do you think keeps the knees from coming in?

Same with traps/rear delts. Look at the strongest deadlifters in the world, do they have small traps or necks?

Concentrate on getting the basic lifts to a point which equals the size you want. Having a 300/400/500 may not be big enough for you, and you'd need to get to 400/500/600. Or maybe just getting 200/300/400 is enough for you, it doesn't matter. You can do as much isolation work as you want but your progress will always be proportionate to your total.

Maybe some guys will need extra isolation work to work on a weak point BUT unless you already have a significant strength and muscular base (different for every person), your whole BODY is a weak point - you can't tell me for example that a 150lb guy needs extra work on his rear delts or 'upper inner outer chest'.
 

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Sheridan...

As in Sheridan College?

As in Sheridan College in Canada?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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For complete physique I think compound lifts are good enough.

For injury prevention, im not an expert, but I learned a few things:
stretch post workout, warm up correctly preworkout
Shoulders: arm circles, internal rotations, external rotations.
Low back: to prevent injuries to spine: dead/squats (duh), weighted hyper extensions
knee: Doing squats where you go as low as possible with knee still behind toes. Take your knee through your full range of motion when stretching.
Neck: Hise shrugs. http://www.sherdog.net/forums/showthread.php?t=338174 http://www.sherdog.net/forums/showthread.php?t=352967
Elbow:? Maybe delevop triceps?
 

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spesmilitis said:
Elbow:? Maybe delevop triceps?
high reps on your curls and tricep extension movements (skullcrushers, pushdowns, db extensions). best way to wreck your elbows is low reps and heavy weight with arm work
 

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Warboss Alex said:
high reps on your curls and tricep extension movements (skullcrushers, pushdowns, db extensions). best way to wreck your elbows is low reps and heavy weight with arm work
I see how developing the tricep will decrease impact to the eblows if the elbows get hit (like landing on your eblow after a throw in wrestling or judo). More of the impact will be spread along the tricep muscles. But how do curls help. Maybe the bicep helps stabilize the joint? In that case, are pullups/chins/deadlifts/BOR's good enough?
 

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Yes, curls stabilise the elbow joint. The only reason powerlifters do curls is to stabilise the joint during squatting and benching (unless they wanna have bodybuilder arms of course :D).

Whether you need additional bicep work will depend on the weights you're lifting. After a point you will need direct work if only to protect your joints - but worry about getting to that point first. :D

(in other words, the compounds will be enough for now)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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whoa, so curls are actually good for something. Now I'm going to feel like a fruit when I join bench'n'curl guys who swarm the free weight areas. Sorta like being the only guy in a aerobic class.
 

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What about the elbow/inner elbow (don't know what it's called) area?
I've added some decent size (well compared to how skinny I use to be) to my forearms and tris/biceps...but I still have skinny elbows.

After a workout, that area is all pumped up, but otherwise it's rather skinny.
 
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