"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Comments on friends # close attempt through facebook?

Ronald

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There was a conversation on Facebook group discussion where my friend asked for a girl's number. Their convo went something like this:


Haha Mary. Statistics is fun dude. I took it in highschool and I was totally pro at it. Maybe I should take that haha.

@Charlie- you're gonna take it again?? hahahaha, i hope statistics is fun. :I i'll be going to class 5 days a week. ugh

To Mary: Well the only reason I would take it is because I want the GPA boost (I'm pretty sure I'd get an A in stats).
If I end up taking the class, you better keep me entertained during the boring lectures! ; )

@Charlie- If I keep you entertained, you help me keep my grade up!! HAHA. THEN we'll start talkin' :D

Hey, Mary, I can't seem to register for Winter Stats class, so don't worry about keeping me entertained yet! I have no idea what I’m doing on the site. Help me out...oh, or even better, message me your # and you can tell me how to do it over lunch : )

They're not even facebook friends or anything so he couldn't talk to her directly on her wall. Would it have been better if he added her first and warmed up to her through that?

<Edit> I meant to post this on DJ discussion, but my friend is just a freshmen in college so your guys analysis should still be good. I forgot to mention that they don't know each other in real life or anything.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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