"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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COMBAT techniques to INCREASE LOST Interest Level.

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If you learn anything on here, interest level is the thing.

No amount of chasing, money, looks, nice"ness", gifts, will turn her back to being interested in you once you are losing her.

I will not lie to you. If she is losing interest in you, its HARD. But dont totally give up.

1. REGAIN CONTROL of yourself. You may not get HER back, but you get manly control of your emotions, and MOVE FORWARD with or without her. This might involve start dating other women again, making a career change, adopting more confidence, stop calling her,

2. GET CASUAL, ****y, and FUNNY again. Chances are, you went all serious on her(dont beat yourself up over this. You took a manly chance of telling her that you love her, and she reacted badly). In this battle mode, you admit what you want, but the point is that you can LIVE WITHOUT IT. In other words, i care for you, but i have other options and i am heading in that direction right now.

3. Re acquaint yourself with your ambition. You are heading in the direction of making your life better. Get moving again.

4. Show the world that you are a man who is desired. Look, talk, with ambition and confidence.

5. use contacts, network, and pals to get back out there. Dont go it alone. Go on some blind dates. Let word get back to the one you care about that you are dating again.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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The Main Event

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Good blueprint--moreso for getting your life back on track than for turning things around with a particular girl. Number 3 is particularly important; you'll never move on if you continue to leave major aspects of your life on "pause".


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