"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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.com to .net Really Screwed Things Up!!!

TooColdUlrick

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I know you said you changed servers, but why the domain change to .net?

It has screwed things up. links don't work, favorites are toast, you can't even log on to the board from the home page. you have a DB error, and you have to go to your history to get to the boards.

Put it back to .com. The server doesn't have anything to do with the domain name.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Re: Oh, grow a pair!

Originally posted by Von Neuen
Take any given URL (say, "From Non-Don… To Don Juan [Part III] @ http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=15014) and change ".com" to ".net" and "/vBulletin/" to "/forum/"

Now you're left with http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=15014, and it works for me.
yes, i understand that, but that's my point. all of my (and alot of others i presume) favorites are fvcked up, as well as other things.

i'll live.
 
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