Fortunate_Juan
Senior Don Juan
It’s almost maddening; I come here and watch as this forum slowly slips farther and farther in to the abyss. There are a few bastions of sanity left in the forum, but for the most part, people here are willing to look at this whole “DJ community” like a house. Oh sure they see what needs to happen, but they peer through the window like a peeping tom, forever wishing they had the skills to get and maintain girls. This site is the open door to that house; all you have to do is COME IN!
I’m serious! Anyone can change their life, you just need dedication and you need to have your head screwed on right. Now I am by no means claiming to be perfect or the end all be all DJ. What I am claiming is that this site is supposed to show you how to screw your head on right. My main beef is peoples willingness to sit in their pit and whine about their lives. But like in real life, crying at the bottom of a pit leaves you no where… but at the bottom of the pit. I used this site for what it is supposed to be for, like a rope thrown down in to the pit to climb out of.
I found this site, I was AFC no doubt. I read the bible, did the whole thing. I’ve read it a few times. It seems like a good percentage of you are either oblivious to the bible and archives or that you simply aren’t applying them. We can’t treat the old posts like some lost forgotten scripture passed down in legend and told around campfires. They are relevant and waiting to change you! It has for me! I will admit some of you have actually stepped in to the house and stumbled around on to a few good things (I’ve done it too), but the funny thing about being in the “house” is that you have to turn the lights on to get things done (apply the principles). Some times I forget to turn the lights on, but that is happening less frequently thanks to this site.
I mentioned screwing your head on straight, it’s been put many other ways. Some of you may prefer “reframing” your outlook.
The pessimist looks at the glass half empty, the optimist looks at it half full. The DJ on the other hand know’s what it is, a glass half full with half of its potential realized. Now hold on a second, you might say, isn’t that almost the same view as the optimist? Yes and no, the optimist recognizes one thing, it’s half full, but the DJ see’s the big picture, it is not only good, but it can be better. That is the kind of mindset you need to have when looking and dealing with anything in life. These are the great things; this is what I can do to make it better. By getting your “poop in a group” as my friend says, you are reframing the ideas so that you are not only focusing on the good; you are looking for increased returns. Essentially, you are getting the right mindset for poon slayage.
That being said; you shouldn’t be so focused on getting the “sacred V”.
HOLY HOMOSEXUAL MONK BATMAN! ARE YOU TELLING ME THAT I SHOULD STOP TRYING TO GET LAID? Before you shave your head and put your balls on a shelf and/or burn me on the cross, hear me out.
Chicks play games, (DUH!) “Keep away” comes to mind. I used to do this with girls I liked. They REAAAAAALLY wanted a toy, so what would I do? Hold it above their head. It was amusing, they jumped and whined and eventually gave in or I let them have the toy when I got bored.
When you REAAAAAAALLY want to get laid, they hold it over YOUR head. You see, girls are like dogs (don’t get the flame throwers out just yet!) They are like dogs in the sense that they can smell fear/desire. When you are so freaked about getting laid that it’s practically sweating out of you, it turns them off. You aren’t the mystery anymore, your intentions are plain as day, you might as well hand them a brochure and get your laser pointer out and do a presentation on how you want to bed them “...and you see, in diagram c.2 you will notice the spreading of the legs...”.
Another point to take from dogs is they roll in stuff that stinks (cue the cricket chirping). The dogs, they don’t do that because they like how it smells (maybe they do like it but its not the main reason), they do it as an instinct. The whole reason behind it is that if they smell like what they killed, their prey has a harder time detecting them. So in effect, if you are “rolling in the poon” you don’t nessecarily have an odor about you (although if you don’t shower afterwards you may develop one) but you have a state of mind that projects “I don’t care about getting laid because it’s so abundant that it might as well be called oxygen 2.0” So the girlies see you as a non-threat because you haven’t put it up on a pedestal because you don’t feel it’s important enough. In reality you want to lay waste to her like a Mongol horde lays waste to a band of Chinese nobles. But you must mask stench of your desire with the cologne of indifference. The bird of paradise only alights on the hand that does not grasp.
The next order of business is how you can get that “I don’t care attitude”. Well unfortunately I can’t give it to you. I can, however, tell you how to get it, or at least how I got it. It’s really simple and its price is reasonable. All it costs is your time. Search these forums! Read Pook, read the bible, read the archives. Those should be enough to get you rolling. There are some pay for books out there, I read “how to become an alpha male” and it’s a fantastic book. I have some David De Angelo stuff too, but those cost money.
In closing, some of you new kids to the game should stop worrying about getting chicks for a bit, stop worrying about how much poon other members are “getting” and how they stand in this game, you need to work on YOU. Hopefully that’s why you’re here.
FJ
I’m serious! Anyone can change their life, you just need dedication and you need to have your head screwed on right. Now I am by no means claiming to be perfect or the end all be all DJ. What I am claiming is that this site is supposed to show you how to screw your head on right. My main beef is peoples willingness to sit in their pit and whine about their lives. But like in real life, crying at the bottom of a pit leaves you no where… but at the bottom of the pit. I used this site for what it is supposed to be for, like a rope thrown down in to the pit to climb out of.
I found this site, I was AFC no doubt. I read the bible, did the whole thing. I’ve read it a few times. It seems like a good percentage of you are either oblivious to the bible and archives or that you simply aren’t applying them. We can’t treat the old posts like some lost forgotten scripture passed down in legend and told around campfires. They are relevant and waiting to change you! It has for me! I will admit some of you have actually stepped in to the house and stumbled around on to a few good things (I’ve done it too), but the funny thing about being in the “house” is that you have to turn the lights on to get things done (apply the principles). Some times I forget to turn the lights on, but that is happening less frequently thanks to this site.
I mentioned screwing your head on straight, it’s been put many other ways. Some of you may prefer “reframing” your outlook.
The pessimist looks at the glass half empty, the optimist looks at it half full. The DJ on the other hand know’s what it is, a glass half full with half of its potential realized. Now hold on a second, you might say, isn’t that almost the same view as the optimist? Yes and no, the optimist recognizes one thing, it’s half full, but the DJ see’s the big picture, it is not only good, but it can be better. That is the kind of mindset you need to have when looking and dealing with anything in life. These are the great things; this is what I can do to make it better. By getting your “poop in a group” as my friend says, you are reframing the ideas so that you are not only focusing on the good; you are looking for increased returns. Essentially, you are getting the right mindset for poon slayage.
That being said; you shouldn’t be so focused on getting the “sacred V”.
HOLY HOMOSEXUAL MONK BATMAN! ARE YOU TELLING ME THAT I SHOULD STOP TRYING TO GET LAID? Before you shave your head and put your balls on a shelf and/or burn me on the cross, hear me out.
Chicks play games, (DUH!) “Keep away” comes to mind. I used to do this with girls I liked. They REAAAAAALLY wanted a toy, so what would I do? Hold it above their head. It was amusing, they jumped and whined and eventually gave in or I let them have the toy when I got bored.
When you REAAAAAAALLY want to get laid, they hold it over YOUR head. You see, girls are like dogs (don’t get the flame throwers out just yet!) They are like dogs in the sense that they can smell fear/desire. When you are so freaked about getting laid that it’s practically sweating out of you, it turns them off. You aren’t the mystery anymore, your intentions are plain as day, you might as well hand them a brochure and get your laser pointer out and do a presentation on how you want to bed them “...and you see, in diagram c.2 you will notice the spreading of the legs...”.
Another point to take from dogs is they roll in stuff that stinks (cue the cricket chirping). The dogs, they don’t do that because they like how it smells (maybe they do like it but its not the main reason), they do it as an instinct. The whole reason behind it is that if they smell like what they killed, their prey has a harder time detecting them. So in effect, if you are “rolling in the poon” you don’t nessecarily have an odor about you (although if you don’t shower afterwards you may develop one) but you have a state of mind that projects “I don’t care about getting laid because it’s so abundant that it might as well be called oxygen 2.0” So the girlies see you as a non-threat because you haven’t put it up on a pedestal because you don’t feel it’s important enough. In reality you want to lay waste to her like a Mongol horde lays waste to a band of Chinese nobles. But you must mask stench of your desire with the cologne of indifference. The bird of paradise only alights on the hand that does not grasp.
The next order of business is how you can get that “I don’t care attitude”. Well unfortunately I can’t give it to you. I can, however, tell you how to get it, or at least how I got it. It’s really simple and its price is reasonable. All it costs is your time. Search these forums! Read Pook, read the bible, read the archives. Those should be enough to get you rolling. There are some pay for books out there, I read “how to become an alpha male” and it’s a fantastic book. I have some David De Angelo stuff too, but those cost money.
In closing, some of you new kids to the game should stop worrying about getting chicks for a bit, stop worrying about how much poon other members are “getting” and how they stand in this game, you need to work on YOU. Hopefully that’s why you’re here.
FJ