College Starts Tomorrow

[Prodigy746]

Listen man, i found that asking a girl any random question in class have them talking to you. They will rarely, if ever say anything to you first, but if you go in second day of class and ask her if she has her sylibas with her and if you can see it bam you are in. They will start talking to you like they have known you for years , atleast thats what i experienced in my college.

 

[DonJoseCantosie]

Direct game is fine and it works for a lot of guys, but it's not something you should practice in a small discussion class with 15 people. If you sit down in a small class like that and say something like "hey, I think you're cute. I want to get to know you" to a girl, other people in the class will hear you and you will trigger all her anti-slut defenses. She will know others are listening and will be wary of that.

Oh i forgot to mention that direct would be MUCH different in a small classroom than a lecture hall. With 15 people, what is there to practice? haha. It is a more personable situation so u'd have to Calibrate it to that situation.

For example:
You: "Hi"
Her: "Hi"
You: "Your cute u know that... "
Her: " Thanks"
You: "Yea,...<talk about whatever in class>

Thats it really. It doesn't come off as only a compliment because ur still talking to her, rather than a cold approach situation where she doesn't know ur gonna still say something.


And only a few eyes will look, then after 3-4 seconds, they wont. All i'm saying here, is in a small lecture class....just sitting down next to the girl u want. She knowing that initially ur not thinking of her as in the friends light. Thats all i'm saying. I agree with in a small class to not try to outright seduce her immediately as there's no point.

And what if this backfires on you, and she tells you to piss off or that she has a boyfriend? You'll have that little gaffe hanging over your head all semester. That could make group work awkward and it could even inhibit your game with other chicks in the class.

Quote "if"...most likely it won't. Its only a 15 person class, there aren't really that many girls to choose from anyhow. Are u gonna be bothered by one girl whom u don't have to really acknowledge after? And stop assuming the worse. its rare a girl will tell u to go away or fvck off. Also, who cares if she says she has a bf...u think she'll think of u negatively? I flat out went for going for a girl in one of my classes, she said she had a bf but guess what...we still were flirty with each other. As long as u don't find it awkward, she probably won't find it as awkward. Groups stuff i don't think would be a problem...as i said before, it prolly won't be as awkward as u think.

This would be alright to do in a large lecture class because there's no group work and the setting is less personable. A large lecture class is more like a public setting, so you're more or less just cold approaching. In fact, I wish I would have tried more direct game in lecture classes when I was in college. My game was weakest in classes with tons of people. I could open, but it was just too hard to build a rapport.

I agree. Its better here because there is more girls to go through. But building rapport, yea...def before and after class is crucial. I'm just saying don't try to hide that ur into her in a non-friends way. Good discussion btw man.

But this all one way to go about it, neither the absolute best nor the worst.

 

[Daddy The Pimp]

The latest opener that im using a lot .

*spreading my hands wide open * cmon , give me a hug
quick quick quick .

With big grin in my face , treating her like a child or something .

Try , maybe it works for you too . For me it works perfectly .

 

[DonJoseCantosie]

^Girls like hugs :-D so yea, good one daddy.

 

[Prodigy746]

I agree with this... however the easist place to pickup girls is in class. Here is and example of what i usually do and it has not failed me yet in my two years in college.

Most of the numbers i got in college have been in classes. First class i come in and sit near some girls and guys both. Right away i start talking to them about random things. Most of the time ill ask if they got the textbook yet, how much it is, is it required etc. At this time i usually look for girls that i would be intersted in and see where they sit. Me talking to these people gives me some social proof and makes me look confident.

Hopefully the girl i am interested in is sitting close to me, that is a big plus becasue next class i dont have to go out of my way to sit next to her but if she does sit away from me i will sit next to her next class. IF she is sitting close to me i come in early and sit next to her seat even if i have to change my seat a little. I might say wats up to people that i already talked to before and maybe talk to them for a while. When i see that she took out her folder to get ready to take notes i ask if she brought her syllibus and if i can see it. Most people bring their sylibus because its usually given first class. I look at it and usually make some comments about how much the homework is worth or how we got so many tests or how all my tests are on the same week. At this time she will usually agree and start talking to me about it. After that you can talk to her about anything but i make sure that i talk to other people too. I usually go for the number after 3rd or 4th class, i wait till she gets up and than i start talking to her as we are both leaving. This isoletes me and her and we end up leaving the class together which is perfect time to ask for the number. "Hey i got to go to my next class but let me get your number and maybe we can study for the test together or something." usually does the trick.

If the girl is not responsive or doesnt seem intersted when i talk to her i start forming a study group third or forth class. Ill ask both guys and girls next to me if they want to form a study group and usually they do so i start getting their numbers or emails. I usually get 2-3 people before i say to her something along the lines " Oh i almost forgot to ask you did you want to join our study group" i never received a no yet , when she says yes i get her number. After that we do a study group, this helps me get a good grade on the test, makes me coupla friends, and i get to show her how fun i am during the study group. After the study group one day i will randomly call the girl ask her about something random like test date, or when is the paper due, or anything about school than switch subject to what she plans on doing this weekends and than ask her if she wants to come to blah blah blah. NOTE: These numbers have not always turned into dates, sometimes they have a boyfriend or the make up some random excuse but i would say that i have gone out with about half of the girls.

I have probobly gotten 12-13 numbers like this, sometimes i get 2-3 numbers from dateable girls from one class. If i see coupla girls that i like in the class i start forming study group right away and try to get them in it.

 

[Sandow]

First off, you're very fortunate to be in your situation and in college. Don't take it for granted because for most people it was the greatest time of their lives. It was for me and I wish I knew about this site when I was in school. Never again will you be surrounded by so many girls and opportunities.

Anyways, I always felt like college was pretty easy, however most of my game came outside of class. Most of my hookups came from parties and bars. But i did get some girls from inside the classroom and it was so simple. You don't need any witty lines, just ask for their number saying in case you ever miss a day or need a study partner. Bam! thats it. Plus its a win win situation, cause you actually will need a study partner and u got her number.

I guess it depends on what college u go to, but don't worry too much about getting numbers in the classroom, you're gonna be in such better situations outside the classroom that are better for sarging. I often found that the girls i called from the class weren't really my type. A lot turned out be bookworms and never went to the parties. But, nevertheless, still worth doing it.