"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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College is resuming after long break, a bit rusty.

aznxboi

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Hello guys,

Here are some opener I came up with to get # exchange.

''hey why dont we exchance information, we could fill in for each one, if one of us miss class''

Any other good ones you guys can come up with?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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DoctorLW

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I'm personally of the opinion that if you need openers you are trying too hard.

Just say what's up and chat her up, then ask for their number. An "opener" is not going to change if she is interested or not... she's either going to give you her number of she isn't.
 

moto

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yea every college student will agree with that. Just talk and have a conversation then close .
 

DonJuan11

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aznxboi said:
Hello guys,

Here are some opener I came up with to get # exchange.

''hey why dont we exchance information, we could fill in for each one, if one of us miss class''

Any other good ones you guys can come up with?
If you like the girl, its good. If you just want to sleep with her, it's a waste of time.
 
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