College guys , I want your advise here ...

[evan12]

So I am going to these courses, and it is two times a week, 50% are women , but the problem no proper way to meet them , it arranged that women sit on left and men on right , and already every body know know their place.

Here is the problem, no chance to talk with the girls because every body just enter the class and leave it , the only way I can talk to some one if I stand outside of the class and stop them there , but I am wounder if any of you guys did that . especially if you never have a talk with the girl before .
Does any one have a better way to talk with them ?

 

[DJ Bax]

Advice*

Set up a study group.

 

[foolyoufool]

Go to class early and talk to girls before they take their seats.

Stay after late and talk to them as you are all leaving.

You can ask them questions like "What do you think of this class?" or "Did you get the notes from last class?" just to get the ball rolling, if you can't think of anything good yourself. Good luck!

 

[evan12]

Guys...
I am not asking of what to say, I am asking of how to create opportunities without looking creepy.
I already talk with girls when they sit around me ,but it is rare .

 

[Skyline]

If a girl is wearing a sports team shirt or comes in with a camera etc. ask about it. Only do this when its conveient though, meaning if you're waiting in line for something or she sits near you. Dont just go up to her randomly, or at least make it look like you're doing something. Basically use what she wears or has as conversation and the approach.

There isn't much you can do inside the classroom if they sit far away though. Your best bet is group work, seeing them before or after class, the teacher lets you roam around for a bit, or passing out papers and learning their name for another encounter.

 

[Overthought]

Just make a random conversation or statement as you walk into class or walking out and carry on from there. The goal is to make it look unintentional while open enough that she does not percieve you as a creep.

Most importantly don't try too hard. I've found my biggest successes have been when I have not been trying or planning and the situation just presents itself. You just have to be ready.