Cold Approaches = lays?

[PianoGuy33]

Just a question. How many times has a cold approach just from a random girl walking around actually turned into a lay? I really want to get laid this weekend well tonight! and I want to go cold approach some women haha.

 

[irocknike23]

Only place you can get laid same day as a cold approach is a club....and you have to be really good looking or driving an expensive car to get a lay that same day

 

[sageproduct]

100%. Every time I cold approach a girl, I go home immediately afterward, lay down, and fap.

 

[lgbs2004]

Only place you can get laid same day as a cold approach is a club....and you have to be really good looking or driving an expensive car to get a lay that same day

That's not true. I'm not superb good looking, don't have an expensive car and one time or another had turned a cold aproach in a club into lay!

 

[The Duke]

As soon as my longtime wingman and I started going out to have fun instead of find women, we became far more successful acquiring women. ;-)

 

[mustfirstregister]

I have but its like 1/1000

 

[Plutoman]

I see ~10% of numbers as getting somewhere, and probably 25% of my extended conversations get turned into a number from my latest expeditions. The rest I get a boyfriend line, or I didn't get enough interest to ask (which usually isn't much of an extended conversation), or I judged some reason not to get the number (way too young in high school, for example). I have quite a few times where I just say something to someone nearby, and get no interest in a conversation - including those, I'll get a number every 1 in 5 interactions or so.

 

[irocknike23]

That's not true. I'm not superb good looking, don't have an expensive car and one time or another had turned a cold aproach in a club into lay!

Yes and you live in Brazil I see where the scene is a lot different. Just saying "Brazil" makes me instantly think of big booty girls and a lot of sex

 

[lgbs2004]

Yes and you live in Brazil I see where the scene is a lot different. Just saying "Brazil" makes me instantly think of big booty girls and a lot of sex

This thing about Brazil is nothing but a myth.

 

[irocknike23]

This thing about Brazil is nothing but a myth.

Please tell me at least the thing about most girls having nice big asses is true?

 

[alpha_ash]

I have heard that guys do each other in Brazil before getting married. Is that true? I heard this from a very credible source, but may be outdated.

 

[JohnChops]

oh my god what a bunch of whiners. you cold approach not just to get laid but to meet new girls and a person in general! That opens doors to more possibilities other than getting laid like possibly more social rewards, parties, etc. Who gives a fvck about getting laid, go ahead make sex/women the center of your life and see where you are in 20 years. Go for it. But seriously, stop being so negative with cold approaching, yeah its hard, but god damn what do you want everything handed to you on a golden platter?

 

[Demonpenz]

I cold approach all day everyday. Everyday is hustling.

 

[zinc4]

Just a question. How many times has a cold approach just from a random girl walking around actually turned into a lay? I really want to get laid this weekend well tonight! and I want to go cold approach some women haha.

I am dating someone, but for the fun of it, i cold approached a chick i happened to be walking behind on the way home from the convenient store last night...she is already texting and saying she wants to have dinner...this would be sure thing lay if i was single...hell, i might do it anyways given my current on and off again situation with my GF...but in general, it is difficult to do this so easily...you can chat up over 50 chicks and not get one date or chat up 1 and get one...just depends on how you talk to them and approach them and of course who you are approaching.

You should try nightclubs if you want success tonight.

If i don't turn in a lay anytime i go to a nightclub when i am single and looking, i consider that to be a failure. However, ironically, usually, you will do the best when you aren't trying so hard to get laid. Moral of the story, go out and have fun and see what kind of fish bite...but if you recieve strong eye contact or physical contact or chicks dancing near you on purpose strike immediately.

So hit up some night clubs.....it's very difficult to turn a cold approach in the daytime to an instant date/lay...usually they are caught off guard and busy and would like to get ready for a date or such....in the club a lot of them are there to get down if they think they met the right guy.

 

[zinc4]

oh my god what a bunch of whiners. you cold approach not just to get laid but to meet new girls and a person in general! That opens doors to more possibilities other than getting laid like possibly more social rewards, parties, etc. Who gives a fvck about getting laid, go ahead make sex/women the center of your life and see where you are in 20 years. Go for it. But seriously, stop being so negative with cold approaching, yeah its hard, but god damn what do you want everything handed to you on a golden platter?

I call BS on this...in the end we all cold approach to get laid or some makeout action or find someone for dating....that's all 99 percent of women are good for anyways it sure as hell aint to be friends with unless you are using them to meet their friends....a few are good for more, but not many. If you are cold approaching just to expand your social circle, i would say your time would be much better spent aquiring a new hobby.

 

[JoeMarron]

From what I've read the number is around 10%. Of course that number can go up if you know how to read attraction signals instead of just approaching blindly.

 

[Plutoman]

From what I've read the number is around 10%. Of course that number can go up if you know how to read attraction signals instead of just approaching blindly.

10% of numbers, though, not approaches.

Paul Janka reported a consistent 11% of his numbers turned into lays. Michael Mason (The G Manifesto) reported ~15% of his numbers turning into lays.

So if you've refined your game to the point they have, you could expect 10-15%. Otherwise, expect less.

Still, results happen from the quantities.

 

[sageproduct]

I see ~10% of numbers as getting somewhere, and probably 25% of my extended conversations get turned into a number from my latest expeditions. The rest I get a boyfriend line, or I didn't get enough interest to ask (which usually isn't much of an extended conversation), or I judged some reason not to get the number (way too young in high school, for example). I have quite a few times where I just say something to someone nearby, and get no interest in a conversation - including those, I'll get a number every 1 in 5 interactions or so.

This is about right

Like a little more than 1 in 10 of my numbers turn into dates I'd say

Daygame takes time and patience though, chances are you won't "find a lay for the weekend"

Unless the chick really likes you right away, you need to take your time and build a little rapport over the phone before you can meet up with her

 

[zinc4]

This is about right

Like a little more than 1 in 10 of my numbers turn into dates I'd say

Daygame takes time and patience though, chances are you won't "find a lay for the weekend"

Unless the chick really likes you right away, you need to take your time and build a little rapport over the phone before you can meet up with her

if you look good, your convo and flirting is good on the initial encounter and the circumstances are right no serious BF or she is not satisfied with Bf or she is single blah blah then some of them will turn into quick lays....it all depends who is approaching and how they are approaching...

 

[Plutoman]

Turning a daygame approach into a quick lay is not an easy practice. It's vastly different from the bar scene, where I've met some good women, but the amount of easy girls is much higher than just around the town.

Sure, it's possible, but you have to find the right kind of girl, have the right convo/flirting, have schedules that work for it, have to look good.. in other words, you have to make zero mistakes along with circumstances in your favor. Don't count on it.