"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Cold approach tip

Lexington

Master Don Juan
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There's this one girl I have my eye on. We cross paths frequently but no situations arise that would facilitate our meeting. So I have to make it happen. Basically, whenever I run into this girl, she's doing her own thing. She's usually on her way to somewhere. What's a good way to initiate a conversation without coming off as weird or creepy? I've tried making eye contact a few times but usually she's so absorbed in her own routine that she doesn't even look around at her surroundings.

I know there are some approaches listed here on this site, but does anyone have a tailor made solution for this particular situation?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Juando

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Hey I see you around here all the time and I'm starting to feel rude not talking to you...


Or the old standby: Hi how are you?
 
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