"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Co-worker

Ambition Now

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Hi everybody, here is the story, last week ive dated a co-worker, kiss closed, she was sending lots of IOI so i did it.
I know all you guys say about co-workers... My question is, what do you guys think about a near future f-close, its really easy to do it, probably anytime i want to, but i am not that much attracted to her and dont want to have a relationship with her...
Would f-close in this case, or just move on?
Thank you
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Darth

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Not only is she is a coworker, but you're not even attracted to her.

Don't do it.
 
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