"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Co-worked asked me out...

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I have been on my new career job for only five weeks.

Yesterday, I had to go to another branch to pick something up from someone.

Apparently the woman liked what she saw and e-mailed me if I would like to go out for coffee sometime.

I am 31 and she is 33-34 I think. She is not at all bad looking, I am just not sure what I should do.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Go. keep the email.
 
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Go. keep the email.
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I already sort of told her no, but I would go as a friend.

My reasons why:

1.) She is 33-34 and looking to settle down.

2.) She works in the library headquarters (I work in a branch) where I would like to eventually end up.

3.) I just started this job and I have not established myself yet.


However, if the 23 year old part-timer from downstairs asked me out, I would all over it.
 
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