yesterday i went to the club mynt for the 1st time because it was teens night at first it was great i danced with y friend and her freind thn i started to dance for myself for a while but no 1 came and asked me to dance i tried to look for eye contact but their was absolutles none. i asked a couple of girls and they all said no so it started to suck. what was i doing wrong i looked for eye contact i had social proof and i had fun dancing by myself but nothing i asked this girl but she said no then tapped me on the shoulder later and said she didnt llike the song she would dance later and then the next song she goes to the center and starts grinding the **** out if this guy who approaches her 1st. Damn it i mean i read the bible and some other threads but its not helping oh and their was mad girls dancing with girls in groups of 4 or 5 please help
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
clubbin started good but then argg
- Thread starter dawg89
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
twomix9900
New Member
maybe you didnt look attractive enough...?
Heizen
Senior Don Juan
You read the bible, but did you put it into practice? Reading it it one thing. Reading it, underdstanding it, and utilizing it, are completly different.
Did you ask girls with confidence? Did you feel like you looked good? Did you follow the 3 second rule? Stating "then the next song she goes to the center and starts grinding the **** out if this guy who approaches her 1st" makes me thing you DIDN'T because *you* should have been the guy that approached first.
In clubs and dances you need to take charge, be confident, and act the part of a alpha male.
Did you ask girls with confidence? Did you feel like you looked good? Did you follow the 3 second rule? Stating "then the next song she goes to the center and starts grinding the **** out if this guy who approaches her 1st" makes me thing you DIDN'T because *you* should have been the guy that approached first.
In clubs and dances you need to take charge, be confident, and act the part of a alpha male.
Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
Chilll da **** out...it was your first nite of clubbing, you did great. You got shut down but everyone has there bad days. Ur getting urs outta the way early and you know how the club operates a little more. Keep at it
In clubs i just go behind girls and say in their ear "hows it going" or "whats up" or "whats goin on" and just start dancing with them and they just smile.. i never ask.
-also when u say this u gotta say it like u think ur the **** and have that deep alpha male type voice tone.
-also when u say this u gotta say it like u think ur the **** and have that deep alpha male type voice tone.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Mr. Debonaire
Master Don Juan
ya, gbpackers has it figured
also, you said their were groups of four or five. if you can summon all your don juan skill, get right in the middle of one of these groups and just go at it, the girls will love you. this works, i did it at a prom in another town with four girls and they were ALL grinding me
also, you said their were groups of four or five. if you can summon all your don juan skill, get right in the middle of one of these groups and just go at it, the girls will love you. this works, i did it at a prom in another town with four girls and they were ALL grinding me