Club (teen night lol) advice?

[thedoc]

Hey. I just went to my first teen night (I'm 16) and it didn't go as well as I hoped. I really don't know what I'm doing wrong and I need some help.

Basically, tonight I just wanted to dance (grind) with girls (baby steps). Technically, I was 3/14 ish and 2 were for literally 30-60 seconds. One was for like 10 mins but apparently she was "chubby." (I was still a bit drunk at the time). The other two were easily 7s at least.

I came in kind of drunk, as a result in 5 shots in under 2 minutes. I had absolutely no approach anxiety and my body language wasn't bad, at all. I was constantly moving along to the beat, I always stood straight and certainly looked confident. Even when walking, I walked through everybody, not once did I have to walk around. I felt like the king of the world in that sense.

My "approach." I would go up, usually from the side, and touch a girl on her hip or shoulder, and scream into her ear "lets dance." The "touch" was confident and after the first few i stopped tapping the girl. The music was really fking loud and it sounded like a whisper. I maintained eye contact and when she said no, I walked away like I didn't give a **** (which I didn't).

I know this whole post is "I,I,I" but I really have no clue what I'm doing wrong. Any advice would be really appreciated.

Thanks a lot guys.

 

[sageproduct]

Dude, weird. I just went to my first one too last weekend. I had roughly the same results, except I was completely sober and I was about 5/15. First girl was really fat, lol. Basically all I've picked up is just to get better at dancing.

 

[War Against Betaism]

You're doing nothing wrong, you can't expect to score perfect all the time no matter how good your game is at the club. I've been clubbing for a while and my rejection to non rejection ratio is like 4/10 on an average night. One night I literally went 2/21 (I counted). Some girls just go there to hang out with their other girls and dance their night away. It's retarded but girls do this and when they're with their other homegirls, often times they're not looking to dance with strangers.

 

[thedoc]

You're doing nothing wrong, you can't expect to score perfect all the time no matter how good your game is at the club. I've been clubbing for a while and my rejection to non rejection ratio is like 4/10 on an average night. One night I literally went 2/21 (I counted). Some girls just go there to hang out with their other girls and dance their night away. It's retarded but girls do this and when they're with their other homegirls, often times they're not looking to dance with strangers.

To be honest, I think they get pure pleasure from turning guys down left and right. That is, until a true DJ comes along. What makes me wonder the most is since there's no real way to talk at a club, it's all looks/body language.

There's an expression poker players use "If you can't find the fish at the table, then you're the fish."

I certainly saw the fish. Hell, there were around 30 guys in the corner watching the Red Sox game.

So what else might there be to improve on?