club FR

[Vanilla]

Not sure if it's worth posting, but I really wanted to get out of the house for a while. So I went to a nearby club well known for having tons of asians in there, which is my favorite type of women. It's been a while since I've been at clubs, so I'm taking baby steps for now.

The one I met was about a HB6, and I thought the convo went pretty good since we had similar interests and personalities. She apparently was just visiting her friends, so I thought easy pickings, but never could escalate to a sexual tension, it was just casual stuff I would talk to old people about, like work/school/travel/sleep patterns.

I knew I lost her since she went to see her friends on the dance floor. I didn't follow her, just looked around for other targets but they were surrounded by guys. Later that night we bumped into each other on the dance floor. She didn't seem too happy to see me, so I moved on.

Before the night was over, there was another asian who was a bit too drunk and a tease. She would take my hand and bring me from the bar over to the dance floor, grind against me for a few seconds, then leave. I felt rather embarrassed since other guys were laughing at her for being too crazy.

I'm not bummed about last night, it was a learning experience. The HB that I talked to at the bar, I realized now I wasn't turned towards her, nor did I apply alot of kino, so she probably felt a disconnection.

Any thoughts on how to move from casual talk to more sexual?

 

[HeyPachuco!]

The one I met was about a HB6, and I thought the convo went pretty good since we had similar interests and personalities. She apparently was just visiting her friends, so I thought easy pickings, but never could escalate to a sexual tension, it was just casual stuff I would talk to old people about, like work/school/travel/sleep patterns.

Why would you talk to a girl you're interested in about work and school, thats the sole purpose of why she is out, to GET AWAY from those subjects. And dude, sleep patterns? Sheeesh! That was proobably the icing on the cake and why she upped and left for her friends.

That wasn't baby steps, that was being a common boring guy at the bar. Baby steps are opening and approaching, neghits (optional), minimal talk and ejecting or closing. Simple. Then progression there on. If you've been out of the game for a while, practicing just opening some sets should be you're main meal and leaving the comfort fluff talk on work/school/familial issues for the phone or a day two as you're apetizers.

Any thoughts on how to move from casual talk to more sexual?

Isolating her to another secluded area of the venue, in you're time talking to her. A handshake in you're introduction is the basic form of kino. Adapting this earlier on can help to progress to a more sexual state, given that the attraction from her is there. Buying her a drink won't harm anything, given that you know she is attracted/interested in you and didn't ASK for it. It's not rocket science. Isolation is the key here.

 

[Vanilla]

Haha thanks I needed an ass kicking. Can you give examples of how to do a set? And how long should they be, like a few minutes at most?