Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Club: Be the PIMP

Tkman

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You spot an HB dancing ........ walk up to her

You: "Hello, there"

Her: "Hi"

You: "You seem to have a lot of passion for dancing and your
feminin figue really brings it out"

Note: Buzz her emotions

Her: "Really" or "Thanks"

You: "Where did that passion come from?"

Note: Not only you buzzed her emotions; you revealed something about her and noticed something other chumps failed to forsee. HB's love this kind of stuff. She's going to start talking say "it's in her, skating career, gymnasticks, she loves dancing, etc, etc". ...... Start (1-2 minute convo there). If she doesn't invite you to dance with her then ...

You: "I want you to teach me how to?"

Her: "Ok"

Note: HB's will have hardtime saying "No" cause most of the guys in the club are idiots ... I am sure most of us are guilty of using these lines "You wanna dance baby" ... "Let's dance, please". You are buzzing her emotions and she will have hard time brining down so fast .... although she maybe not interested in you, she will still dance with you. And don't forget to ask for the digit #######

Ask more ---> be noticed more ----> increase in confidents ---- > HB's notice you ----- > HB's from left and right will walk up to you and talk to you or sit beside you ------- > PIMP PIMP
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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If you can say:

You seem to have a lot of passion for dancing and your
feminin figue really brings it out
with a serious face in a noisy club and have a good response, I will pay you five dollars.
 

Jariel

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I think any conversation routines and lines are useless in clubs because of the loud music and the alcohol. Approaching in clubs is around 95% body language I'd say.
 

Tkman

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Originally posted by Omega
If you can say:
with a serious face in a noisy club and have a good response,
Serious face? where the hell are we in church. It's club ... chill out. When you are at a club, your attitude should be "**** it".

Originally posted by Omega
Approaching in clubs is around 95% body language I'd say
Although, I agree with you body language is important but I disagree with the fact it's 95% .....

If you can spit some game in a ear of a hoe, appearence does not play a major factor.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by Omega
If you can say:



with a serious face in a noisy club and have a good response, I will pay you five dollars.
I'm in on this one too, I'll throw in a couple of bucks.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DJDamage

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You: "You seem to have a lot of passion for dancing and your feminin figue really brings it out"
I will throw in another fifteen if you can do it with an Antonio Banderas voice and accent and when she asks you for your name you say " Zorro".

Seriously if you use that line she will see right through you and she will just roll her eyes and walk away.
 

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Fellas, I think this would actually work. If you say it like it's scripted it's probably not going to work out so well. But, if you have the body language to go along with it, she'll probably be down.

You: "You seem to really have a lot of passion in your dancing."

This is where she'll be a little intrigued.

Then get a little closer and finish the statement, maybe touch her, say it in her ear, whatever.

If you have fun with anything, it usually works.
 

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Does anybody have anything that's also unique but a little less corny?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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NotaGoatLover

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TK has very very good post.......It's called NLP.... but it shouldn't be done too often....

You guys don't know what a serious face is........ when someone says "Go up to her and say in a serious face.."

You guys are thinking of a serious face that insecure guys do thats kinda like trembling.....

A serious face would be that your serious and you want an answer and you have great body language and not kidding around (even though in the inside you are) Which give women emotional loops....... women think "Is he serious or not?" all day..
 
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