Closing with a Kiss

[English_Bloke]

So I was on the sofa with this girl, not just sitting there with an arm around her but she had her ass right back in me, both arms around her - perfect situation. Her parents were around so that limited anything. We were playing with each other and trading kino. It was just great, but I want to now close with a kiss.

Usually I dont do any of this stuff before a kiss, usually by the 2nd or 3rd date, but this has been a few weeks now and im feeling a little arckward. I need to fill the gap between what im doing now and then kissing/making out. What do I really need to do to build her up for it? Kiss her on the neck, see how she responds and take it up higher?

Im seeing her tomorrow because we have to reherse some stuff togethor anyway, so any tips because I feel like I need to close this soon!

 

[08aisaac]

I generally go by a rule of doing whatever gives you the most pleasure. This might not be very good for her, unless she wants it, but if you want it, go for it.

 

[LobstyLobster]

im in the same exact boat as you. when im in that position with her, its usually in a movie and we are both facing the movie. i get his situation, how do you initiate a kiss with her in that kind of position?

 

[jlazz]

Okay guys...my first date with a girl which was last summer, we went to a play.

I knew she liked me from her body language throughout the date so I had my arm around her. I slowly rotated my finger on her arm, up and down. Then I slowly pulled her closer to me so she is like leaning on me sort of. You can whisper something into her ear.

Then I kissed her on the cheek and turned and faced the play again. This is when she turned to me and kissed me on the cheek and I went in for the kill. I kissed her again, but moved away to her cheek, jaw line, nibbled on her ear, and randomly going back to her lips and slowly pecking them. This heightens the mood and by this time she wanted to eat me alive, which she said. We started tongue kissing and my hand slid down the back of her jeans and you know the rest ;-).

Keep in mind, this was my first kiss with a girl ever and first date ever.

ITS NOT HARD. What you have to do is take the initiative and be confident in yourself. Girls will rarely make the first move. After we madeout, she said "I was dying for you to kiss me ;-)"

You already see the body language in her, what is stopping you?

Tomorrow when you see her...flirt with her. Always flirt! I'm a natural flirt and I like to kid around. When you 2 are about to leave, say something like "hey name...I don't think we ever got to finish what we started the other night ;-)" or you don't even have to do that...if your flirting goes well, which it should since you guys already are comfortable around each other, just grab her and kiss her. BE A MAN.

 

[Alfie Crew]

Just go for it man, you will realize it was worth it and alot easier then you thought. You will look back on the situation and think to youself why did I waste so much time.

 

[NoNickname]

Originally posted by jlazz
Okay guys...my first date with a girl which was last summer, we went to a play.

I knew she liked me from her body language throughout the date so I had my arm around her. I slowly rotated my finger on her arm, up and down. Then I slowly pulled her closer to me so she is like leaning on me sort of. You can whisper something into her ear.

Then I kissed her on the cheek and turned and faced the play again. This is when she turned to me and kissed me on the cheek and I went in for the kill. I kissed her again, but moved away to her cheek, jaw line, nibbled on her ear, and randomly going back to her lips and slowly pecking them. This heightens the mood and by this time she wanted to eat me alive, which she said. We started tongue kissing and my hand slid down the back of her jeans and you know the rest ;-).

Keep in mind, this was my first kiss with a girl ever and first date ever.

ITS NOT HARD. What you have to do is take the initiative and be confident in yourself. Girls will rarely make the first move. After we madeout, she said "I was dying for you to kiss me ;-)"

You already see the body language in her, what is stopping you?

Tomorrow when you see her...flirt with her. Always flirt! I'm a natural flirt and I like to kid around. When you 2 are about to leave, say something like "hey name...I don't think we ever got to finish what we started the other night ;-)" or you don't even have to do that...if your flirting goes well, which it should since you guys already are comfortable around each other, just grab her and kiss her. BE A MAN.

Good post, man. Inspiring!
Thanks

 

[English_Bloke]

Whoa that was an incredible post jlazz! Thankyou for the advice, im definitly going to step up to it now!

 

[08aisaac]

Originally posted by jlazz
Okay guys...my first date with a girl which was last summer, we went to a play.

I knew she liked me from her body language throughout the date so I had my arm around her. I slowly rotated my finger on her arm, up and down. Then I slowly pulled her closer to me so she is like leaning on me sort of. You can whisper something into her ear.

Then I kissed her on the cheek and turned and faced the play again. This is when she turned to me and kissed me on the cheek and I went in for the kill. I kissed her again, but moved away to her cheek, jaw line, nibbled on her ear, and randomly going back to her lips and slowly pecking them. This heightens the mood and by this time she wanted to eat me alive, which she said. We started tongue kissing and my hand slid down the back of her jeans and you know the rest ;-).

Keep in mind, this was my first kiss with a girl ever and first date ever.

ITS NOT HARD. What you have to do is take the initiative and be confident in yourself. Girls will rarely make the first move. After we madeout, she said "I was dying for you to kiss me ;-)"

You already see the body language in her, what is stopping you?

Tomorrow when you see her...flirt with her. Always flirt! I'm a natural flirt and I like to kid around. When you 2 are about to leave, say something like "hey name...I don't think we ever got to finish what we started the other night ;-)" or you don't even have to do that...if your flirting goes well, which it should since you guys already are comfortable around each other, just grab her and kiss her. BE A MAN.

Same thing happened to me. Pretty much the same way, except with less romance. Well, there was some talking.