#closed never called here... she got pissed.

[amoka]

So there is this lady in my salsa dance class. She always shows tremendous interest in me whever we dance together. I flirt with her and she recipocrates during our dancing lessons. About a week or so ago, I asked her for her number to which she responded:
girl: " I have a boyfriend".
amoka: "Ok, so what do you want me to do?". She was flabbergasted. then she continuous: " He lives in Toronton and I visit him every month.... you know I'm faithful girl..."
Amoka:" alright".
gild: " I can only give you my number if you want us to 'just friends'".
Amoka: "No I'm fine... I have enough 'friends'"--she was surprised I responded with such a response. Then about thirty minutes later she started reciting the number. She said lots of guys try calling her but she does not pick-up so I should tell her the first 3-digits of my mobile number so in case i called, she'll pick up. I gave her the 3-digits and left with her number on my phone book. Luckily, I'm not a complete AFC... thanks to sosuave.... I refused to call her to she what she'll to when we returned to class this week. Lo and behold, this chick was expecting my call. She simply couldn't wait to talk to me:
girl: "You got my number but you never called"
Amoka: " Yeah, I know... I was a little bit busy this past few days... how was your weekend?"
girl: "Boring... I slept and did some homeworks."
Folks, this girl was pissed off the whole class. She was just looking at me in amazement as i dance with other hot chicks in the class.

 

[Pimp-sicle]

Nice!!! If I were you I'd escalate the flirting in class, especially since you get free kino with it being a salsa class. Get her progessively more and more excited about you and don't call. After a few more weeks of this, I'd be surprised if she didn't ask you out, ask for your # or do you in the parking lot...LOL

Its also an interesting situation because if you DO call too soon, then all the potential Alpha-ness that she saw in you could disappear. Keep her as your #5 starter, which means don't expect much from it since she's playing the bf card.



PIMP

 

[amoka]

Yeah, I won't call her anytime soon.

 

[azanon]

Good job, but I think you accomplished what you needed to with that s*** test. Wait too long, and its going to be perceived that you're not really that interested in her. That's a bad thing, and not the same as you dont necessarily need her. You've proven that already.

Personally, i'd call soon.

 

[Bonhomme]

If she doesn't really have a BF it looks like she cornered herself with her own BS. If she does, she may be looking for someone more available, not so sure of the long-distance fellow, and thinking "loose lips sink ships."

I think you've had enough fun with it, and can call her by now, if you're still actually interested in talking with her. If you're not really interested, you could have more fun with it and say you really don't want to mess up her relationship.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Yeah, I won't call her anytime soon.

Be careful....

 

[amoka]

Be careful....

Alright, I'll consider calling her sometimes this week.

 

[Latinoman]

You currently go to College...a place that have LOT of HOT girls and LOT of available puzzy.

And the last two threads I've read from you show your interest ONLY for these old ladies (one with a 15 year old kid).

Sorry man...but if somebody in this forum needs to read the DJ Bible...that person is you.


It is like being in a puzzy ATM Machine with unlimited access...and still going to the corner begging for nickels and dimes.

Unreal!

 

[Sinistar]

A Few AFC Rationalizations To Justify The Pursuit Of Considerably Older HB:
1. They are 'perceived' to be more experienced
2. They are 'perceived' to be more mature
3. They are 'perceived' to be good at running relationships
4. Safer 'perceived' approach to close (ie the friendzone BS appoach)

Reality:
1. Fear of younger HBs expecting a certain level of experience.
2. Fear of younger HBs expecting a level of maturity
3. Fear of having to take charge & lead relationship (w/younger HBs)
4. Fear of rejection by all HBs.

Latinoman is spot-on here. You are in a perfect place to face your fear of rejection and rewards of connection with the younger HBs. You'll laugh at these older cougars once you've experienced reciprocating dates and relationships with younger less jaded woman. Besides, if you're gonna get stuck in High School games, might as well be with someone right out of high school with that fantastic body, no kiddies, no f'd up ex and 1/10 of the ridiculous sh!t tests.

 

[amoka]

....And the last two threads I've read from you show your interest ONLY for these old ladies

FYI, this girl is not old and does not have any child. The problem with her is she claimed to have a boyfriend who is in 12 hours drive from where we live; furthermore, she has some kind of attitude or simply say " over-look" herself. She thinks she's all in all. The other one, the one with a kid, however is hot, seems athentic, and all. The only thing that is drawing me back from her is the child. Without the child, I have no trouble at all banging her.

 

[Latinoman]

A Few AFC Rationalizations To Justify The Pursuit Of Considerably Older HB:
1. They are 'perceived' to be more experienced
2. They are 'perceived' to be more mature
3. They are 'perceived' to be good at running relationships
4. Safer 'perceived' approach to close (ie the friendzone BS appoach)

Reality:
1. Fear of younger HBs expecting a certain level of experience.
2. Fear of younger HBs expecting a level of maturity
3. Fear of having to take charge & lead relationship (w/younger HBs)
4. Fear of rejection by all HBs.

Exactly.

 

[Latinoman]

FYI, this girl is not old and does not have any child. The problem with her is she claimed to have a boyfriend who is in 12 hours drive from where we live; furthermore, she has some kind of attitude or simply say " over-look" herself. She thinks she's all in all. The other one, the one with a kid, however is hot, seems athentic, and all. The only thing that is drawing me back from her is the child. Without the child, I have no trouble at all banging her.

Well...fact is...you are in your mid 20s going to college. That on itself puts you in the "prize" segment as you would be considered a "mature" man by College Standards.

Furthermore, they have LOT of YOUNG women willing to have LOT of SEX...and you are killing yourself with these "old" lady and this other drama queen (although, I don't advocate for going out with married woman, I would certainly have no problem with women that have "boyfriends" - but this one is a drama queen).


So...when are you going to use your free PUZZY ATM machine?

Enjoy college...or you will regret it.

 

[amoka]

still into me...

posted at the wrong thread..... check my other thread

 

[Latinoman]

posted at the wrong thread..... check my other thread

Personally...I won't give you advice on how to get her laid. I think you will end up falling in love and getting the one-itis syndrome.