"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Note: If you are looking for a relationship with a genuine girl who has 100% interest level and you really dont care about getting laid alot this post is no use to you.

CLOSING!!!​

There are guys who have most of this Don juan stuff down and go out all the time and approach, approach and approach some more but still don’t get laid, then start to bread resentment towards women.

What are these Don jauns doing wrong………. There not FULL-CLOSING, yep that’s IT, they see hot girl, approach and take the worthless number when the they could of gone for the Instant date/Venue change and FULL CLOSE right then and there, but nope instead they choose to go home ALONE.

Blah blah blah lets not dig any deeper into the 'why' there not FULL-CLOSING or why girls don’t want to meet up after they have given them the number and all that bull**** speculative KJ'ing! Instead, SOLUTION:

Go out for 2/3 weeks and go for instant date/Venue change and FULL-CLOSE on every girl NO number closing unless there is KNOW FVCKING way she'll go with the instant date/Venue change even if you were to give her a MILLION bucks.

P.S. This will only work if you actually go out and approach women in REAL life.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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trojanman88 said:
Don't tell me what to do...LOL
He's right, I'd win an award for spending 30 min talking to a pretty white girl, get her number and flaking/resistance. Phone is bad, pretty white girls are flake queens as they're the most desired. Venue change and isolate. Phone is only good as last ditch thing if she's defo leaving and interaction ends. It's understandable a guy's annoyed if he spends 40 mins chatting/flirting with a girl, she shows high IL and flakes though.

MM
 

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What's with Mad Manic and pretty white girls?

Those aren't the only type of girls that are out there.

On the topic, this works great in college where everyone is drunk/willing. You just have to grab your sack and do it.
 

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Even if you DO want to set up a relationship, you should STILL be trying to close. If she won't let you right away, then fine, but it doesn't mean you shouldn't be trying.

That thing that women call "chemistry" or "spark" is really just a euphamism to justify the underlying sex drive. You may say you want to get to know a woman for who she really is...but the truth is if you're not appealing to her or approaching her on a physical level, she will probably move on. If you ARE sincere about getting to know her, you can do it WHILE you're banging her.

I've dated a lot of really nice girls who get physical on the 1st and 2nd date. I've also tried to "play it cool" with "nice girls" and not go for the sex-close right away and they've drifted/flaked.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Flabbergasped? said:
What's with Mad Manic and pretty white girls?

Those aren't the only type of girls that are out there.

On the topic, this works great in college where everyone is drunk/willing. You just have to grab your sack and do it.
In England there are 3 main racial groups, whites, asians and blacks. The latter two tend to be poorer and lower class, thus the women are not as good looking. It's the white girls that are prettiest and most sought after. Saying that, even on equal wealth and class guys still tend to prefer white women. Though I do agree in America there will be pretty black, asian and hispanic girls but not in the UK. It's white or nothing.
 
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