I met a girl 6 months ago in a club. We hit it off and at the end of the night she and her friend were dragging me and my friend back to the place she was staying at. Unfortunately, that place happened to be a friend's apartment and she was not about to have 2 strangers walk in, pound out her friends, and leave. So I got her number and accepted the setback. Later found out that she lives 2 hours away from where I live/work.
Two weeks later we met up and I ended up staying at her place and TOTALLY F*CKED UP. I was dropped to the lowest level of the friend zone and it sucked. Since then I have not gotten over it and have gone through a couple other girls but this one is the challenge I don't want to give up on. My state of mind is I want this girl and I am going to get her.
Since the "f*ck up", I have drastically improved my physique and altered the way I dress for the better.
One quick detail: I am in the military and will be going overseas sometime this year. I have told her that and she has expressed distress.
Last week me and the same buddy went up to her college town and I did not tell her I was there. At about midnight on Friday I texted her a picture of the bar she is in love with and she got mad. The next morning she texted me and wanted to hang out. So we went over and hung out with her for a few hours before she went to work. After she got off, we went out.
The night didn't end with sex as we were both drunk out of our minds. However, I believe I have made progress. She texted me a few hours after we got back to our place and asked me if I was mad at her. I jokingly responded with "Furious". She instantly called me and I told her I was joking. During that conversation she distinctively said "Me and Friend had fun, she wants you guys to come back".
This week she has been texting me uncharacteristically more often and asking me about my day etc. To clarify, SHE has been initiating most of the text conversations. Here is an example:
Her: How's work today
Me: Busy, you?
Her: Sucks man. Schools boring too
Me: In class now?
Her: Nah I'm done now. I skipped my last class. I'm in the dining hall waiting on my chicken philly
Me: Order me one. Extra chicken. Pepper jack cheese if they got it.
Her: Haha idk if they do or not. I always get provolone with green peppers and thousand island
Me: You'd best find out. Whoaaa, hold the thousand island on mine.
Her: Why does it matter? You're never coming back up here while I'm on the meal plan
Me: Eh? Esssplain.
Her: Ranger School. I'll graduate before you're done
The convo goes on, but basically what I got out of it was that she wants me to come visit her in the near future but isn't coming out and saying it.
Yesterday she asked me to call her after work because she had gotten in a fight with a friend. So I called her, listened to the blathering, played the role of the adult, and she promptly told me I made her feel better. Was that a mistake?
Anyway, long story. I left out a ton of details. Any advice?
Two weeks later we met up and I ended up staying at her place and TOTALLY F*CKED UP. I was dropped to the lowest level of the friend zone and it sucked. Since then I have not gotten over it and have gone through a couple other girls but this one is the challenge I don't want to give up on. My state of mind is I want this girl and I am going to get her.
Since the "f*ck up", I have drastically improved my physique and altered the way I dress for the better.
One quick detail: I am in the military and will be going overseas sometime this year. I have told her that and she has expressed distress.
Last week me and the same buddy went up to her college town and I did not tell her I was there. At about midnight on Friday I texted her a picture of the bar she is in love with and she got mad. The next morning she texted me and wanted to hang out. So we went over and hung out with her for a few hours before she went to work. After she got off, we went out.
The night didn't end with sex as we were both drunk out of our minds. However, I believe I have made progress. She texted me a few hours after we got back to our place and asked me if I was mad at her. I jokingly responded with "Furious". She instantly called me and I told her I was joking. During that conversation she distinctively said "Me and Friend had fun, she wants you guys to come back".
This week she has been texting me uncharacteristically more often and asking me about my day etc. To clarify, SHE has been initiating most of the text conversations. Here is an example:
Her: How's work today
Me: Busy, you?
Her: Sucks man. Schools boring too
Me: In class now?
Her: Nah I'm done now. I skipped my last class. I'm in the dining hall waiting on my chicken philly
Me: Order me one. Extra chicken. Pepper jack cheese if they got it.
Her: Haha idk if they do or not. I always get provolone with green peppers and thousand island
Me: You'd best find out. Whoaaa, hold the thousand island on mine.
Her: Why does it matter? You're never coming back up here while I'm on the meal plan
Me: Eh? Esssplain.
Her: Ranger School. I'll graduate before you're done
The convo goes on, but basically what I got out of it was that she wants me to come visit her in the near future but isn't coming out and saying it.
Yesterday she asked me to call her after work because she had gotten in a fight with a friend. So I called her, listened to the blathering, played the role of the adult, and she promptly told me I made her feel better. Was that a mistake?
Anyway, long story. I left out a ton of details. Any advice?
