Clean records

[Maxwell]

Has anyone here slept with a large number (say, 20+) women and never caught any STDs?
If so, what's the trick, or where you just lucky?
I mean, using condoms is a given, but what about getting partners medically checked out before banging them, is that feasible?

Look, I know I have posted on this before, but given that many people post multiple threads about things like approaching or esclating, it seemed within reason.

It's just that my insane fear of STDs is the final obstacle for me, and I really need help to get over it. I'm at the stage where it's not social anxiety that holds me back from a kiss close, but fear of Herpes. I can converse with girls just fine and even flirt pretty well to the point of mild kino, but no further. I have been trying to overcome this for months without success. (I have OCD)

 

[Metaphysical]

Yes i've had at least 30-35 in the past few years and have not caught any of them.

I used a condom, that's all. And I didn't bang just any weird girl. One time I went out with this girl who apparently used to shoot heroin when she was young and i didn't know about it. When I found about it, i kicked her to the curb. I'm not going to take the risk of sleeping with a druggie who injected themselves with god knows what.

You need to be careful about which girl you stick it in. Make sure you get her life story and find out if she was ever raped, if she ever did drugs, etc etc. And even if she says she's clean, you should still be wearing condoms.

 

[Maxwell]

Thanks.
So in finding out about her past, check specific things like drug use and sexual history. It's just that many girls won't discuss these things.

And insisting they get "checked" is a bad idea?

 

[Nygard]

It really depends. If you can see her vagina looks sick then say no thanks because a condom is not gonna help you. Also, watch out if she scratches a lot down there because it might mean something. Watch out of they have the "Easy as pie" fame.
Otherwise, you'd be kinda safe with the normal protection.

 

[DonJuan11]

I'm the same as you, I'm terrified of STD's. I've literally been 2 seconds away from putting it in a 9/10 who had 1 previous partner but was too afraid due to STD's.

It's almost not worth it IMHO.

 

[Aragon034]

haha BS, that last bit made me laugh.

go ahead, go celibate, never have any girlffriends, or try to improve yourself as a person, stop talking to women, because heck it isnt worth it, they all may have STDs...

let me tell you something guys, STDS are blown out of proportion, just like the terrorist scare, its all FAKE BS to get the masses to act in a certain way. thats alll

I half agree with you.

Yes, it's overblown.

That is until it start to burn when you pee.

The worst i've gotten is Jock Itch but even then it was a minor case. I'd gotten worse playing LaCrosse.

Seriously, Kids, Don't do drugs. Especially at Raves if you're really horny.

 

[Maxwell]

let me tell you something guys, STDS are blown out of proportion, just like the terrorist scare, its all FAKE BS to get the masses to act in a certain way. thats alll

So the medical community invented tested statistics like 1 in 6 Australian women having genital herpes? I think not.
What is it with the extreme conspiracy-theory-esque scepticism on this forum?

Anyway, one of the main points I'm asking about is whether in the context of seduction trying to get all your partners tested before sex is viable, or whether it will discourage girls.

 

[jdawgmcb]

There are virtually no STDs in the porno industry (im talking big business ones).

Just make sure she is clean before you engage in sex. If you're not completely sure, use a condom.