"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Classical Literature: Anyone with a Taste for the Finer Stuff?

diplomatic_lies

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I think his issue was with people who read literature just to "look cool", not because they actually appreciate it. I know many people who think they're better than everyone else because they don't watch TV and can recite Descartes backwards.

On that note, all that intellectualism didn't help France much in 1940.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The 'intellectual wankering' you speak of is what lead to the high-minded ideals of the French Revolution and the decline of European monarchy, which inspired in turn the American revolution. The founding fathers were weaned on the writings of Voltaire and Rousseau, whch is why your beloved Constitiution indulges in such silly intellectual wankering as 'free speech' and 'all men are created equal'.
You've got it backwards. The Americans were inspired by Enlightenment thinkers, and revolted to establish a democracy in the colonies. The French were inspired by this and revolted against Louis XVI.

However your idea remains valid, except for the fact that the French revolution took a turn for the worse pretty damn fast.
 

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Shezz said:
I love the classics - my favourites being:

Don Quixote
Treasure Island ;)
Robinson Cruesoe
David Copperfield
A Tale Of Two Cities
Mystery Of Edwin Drood - (Read this then Write your own ending!! Its good fun)
Prometheus Unbound
- anything by Shelley,Keats,Byron,Milton
The Art Of War
Grimms Fairy Tales :D
How old are you? 12? :down:
 

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Fyodor Dostoevsky, Richard Lamb, Francis Bacon, Stuart Ewen, Richard Preston, J.R.R. Tolkien, Moliere, Shakespeare, Dr. Seuss, James Boswell, Samuel Johnson, Charles Colson, Philip Yancey, some of Charles ****ens(site is censoring the first part ofhis last name), Wallace Stegner, C.S. Lewis, John Grisham, August Wilson, and lots more...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Brian20o2 said:
Dr Seuss is the ****! Also alot of these sound like book we read in my philosophy class.
I am in A.P. English literature and A.P language and composition. I read a lot 0f different authors. Dr. seuss doesn't count for A.P. level according to teachers and all, but I disagree, he has contributed a lot to American literature.

I have a lot of other authors that are worth mentioning, but there are too many to suggest.
 
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