"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Classic leading Men on TV, which behaviors to emulate?

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If you were to turn on Turner Classic Movies on TV, which leading Man would it be? For me I think it’s guys like Cary Grant, Tony Curtis and Sean Connery…what about you guys?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Al Bundy (Married with Children)- quit witted, zero F’s to give, blunt and assertive

Uncle Phil (Fresh Prince of Belair)- Masculine, Successful, Intellectual

Magnum (Magnum P.I.)- Masculine, In shape, leader of men,

BEST OF ALL is Harvey Specter (Suits) -ALPHA!! Reference Briggs Meyers test, ENTJ (Extroverted, Intuitive, Thinking, Judging) He embodies everything a young man should strive for… Thoughts ...
 
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