"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Civil engineers?

oakraiderz2

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Is anyone here a civil engineer? If so, what exactly do you do? How was college? And how do you like your job?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Centaurion

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I'm doing mechanical engineering, but I have several friends that are doing civ-eng. They like it.

Civ-engs basically builds all the buildings/bridges/highways you see around you.

Just a tip though, if you want to do engineering, make sure that you are motivated up the ying yang. Cause, it's a really tough course with an extreme workload. Today was my last day of semester and I had 4 assignments due, and in the last 7 weeks I've had 38 assignments. And they were all huge.
 

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Accounting degrees are an S-load of work as well. And a lot of it isn't related to accounting, which pisses me off.
 

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I graduated not long ago, and will start working in a few weeks.
If you wanna have fun in college, don't go for engineering.
It should be fun though when you start working. I was offered twice the average salary in my city.:up:
You can either work in office on some projects, design proposals, etc. or on the site, supervising workforce.
 

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Originally posted by DrMetallica
Accounting degrees are an S-load of work as well. And a lot of it isn't related to accounting, which pisses me off.
lol I'm doing both
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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