"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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chronic nosebleeds

Akyu

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I guess this goes under the health category of this forum.

Anyway, I've always had a bad history with nosebleeds. When I about 12 years old (im 15 now) I was hit in the nose with a basketball and bleeding very badly. since then I've had somewhat frequent nose bleeds. Now that I look back, I might have broken my nose then, but I never did anything about it so now I have to pay the consequences. But for the past year or 2 they more or less have stopped. But about a week ago my friend accidentally hit me on the nose and my nose started bleeding again. I've been getting them about every 2 days since then, some not so severe, and some like with blood gushing out. As you can tell this is very annoying especially if it happens when I'm out or in school.

Does anyone have some advice, for what I can do on my own. also would anyone suggest seeing a doctor about this?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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KontrollerX

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Definitely see a doctor man.

Maybe you've got an iron deficiency or whatever it is that makes blood clot that you are lacking in.

That or the inside of your nose is damaged somehow from the basketball hit in your youth that makes it prone to bleeding easier.

I'm sure the damage can be repaired if that is the case.
 

eminence

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you can get surgery on your nose so you no longer have nose bleeds, i forget what its called, but they burn the inside of your nose which causes it to bleed.
 

DarthJuan

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I use to have chronic nosebleeds.

The doctor cauterized the inside of my nose.
He stuck what looked like a huge matchstick up my nostrils.
I guess it had acid or something on it. It builds up caullouses on the inside of your nostrils or something.

It was a pretty painful procedure.
I don't have nosebleeds anymore.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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