so ya, me and my girl have only been together for a couple days and she tells her friends that she wants her first kiss to be with me. I was plannin on drivin to her house christmas day and then telling her i got her somethin, lookin her right in the eye, and then givin her the best kiss she'll never forget. then leaving and not talkin to her for a couple days after that (just to make her miss me, hehehe). Does this sound stupid or does it sound like a good idea? Im definitely not gonna buy her a christmas present. And if you think this is a good idea, do any of you all have any suggestions to make to me so I could pull this off even more smoothly?? thanks
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Might be kinda odd on Christmas day... her parents would be lookin to see who it is.
Hell sounds good to me, I may do the same thing with a girl Im DJing. Hahaha, nice. What you should do is tell her you got her a Christmas present, pull out a mistletoe behind your back, put it over her, then say "Wheres mine?" Then kiss her 
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It's a good idea. I'd do that with my girl but we've been going out for a couple of months already so a kiss for Christmas isn't too mind-blowing. Just make sure her parents aren't around
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