"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Christmas gifts for others

Eternal

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Alright, since Christmas is coming up, what all did you get everyone? Then, post what you got on Christmas:

Dad - Platoon DVD, Digital Camera

Mom - Saks Purse (I think that's it...), Earrings/Necklace combo

Gf - Um...Nah, she is on this site...

Friends - One is getting a "Slipknot" t-shirt, one is getting a $10 gift card for EB games, one is getting an "Army Ranger" figure (the ones that are like the ball players), and the other is getting a gift card for a store called "Downtown Locker Room."

So what all did you get everyone?

Please note, this isn't a contest on who is giving the best what, or who got the best what. It's for the spirit of Christmas and giving, so let's keep it that way.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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penkitten

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there is this family i know at my complex
who is a single dad and a son and daughter

the son wrote a letter to santa that went into the newspaper with all the other kids stuff where he asked for new shoes because his were torn up.

the sister was picked for angel tree but he wasnt. there were not enough donators.

i raised money and we got him 2 pairs of shoes, socks, underwear, mittens, hat, lightsaber, 2 books, bionacles and flashcards, a sticker/ marker set and a huge remote control car.

then i told a guy i know who plays santa what we did, and he is currently collecting items for both kids and the dad and he is going to deliver it dressed as santa tommorrow evening.

won't that little boy freak out when santa knocks on his door?
 

penkitten

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i raised $181 for the muscular dystrophy lockup.

and i helped put together something called operation christmas tree at work, where people bring in old trees and decorations that they dont need anymore, maybe they got a new one, and i give them to people who dont have one that live in the apartment complex.
 

Silquee Smoove

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Alright, let's see what I've given so far....

->2nd youngest brother got a PS2 game.
->Sister recieved a gift basket of Peterbrooke Chocolates. (Fancy Type)
->Youngest brother got a gravity board. (He'll be the only guy in the area with one):D
->Everyone else got a gift certificate.


And to all the DJ's here at Sosuave I'm hooking you up with some cool apps./programs that are free and pretty damn cool.

-Frontmotion- http://www.frontmotion.com
Turn your Macromedia Flash files (.swf) into your logon screen or use one of theirs.

-Paint.NET- http://www.eecs.wsu.edu/paint.net
Replaces the MS Paint that comes with Windows (2000 and XP) and it's 32/64-bit and optimized for dual and quad core CPU's.

-Audacity- http://audacity.sourceforge.net
Good all around audio editor that supports LADSPA, Nyquist and VST plugins.

-KlipFolio- http://www.klipfarm.com
Colorful RSS Reader that utilizes "Klips".

-K-3D- http://k3d.sourceforge.net
Good 3-d animation package for creating and rendering your 3-d creations.

Merry Christmas.:up:
 

Keeper

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Mum got Bottle of Italian Cream Liqeur.
Dad got an old Western DVD with Clint Eastwood.

Friend got Sharktooth necklace.
Other friend got imported Deoderant. (Diavolo)
And third friend got Green Neon light for his PC.
Oh, and another friend got back the shirt I borrowed from him in the middle of the year and forgot to give back.

Girlfriend got a ring. An exact replica (But smaller) of the ring that I've worn for the last few years. (Silver) :)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Brother- Got 25$ didn't have time to get a gift card

Step Dad- 25 gift card

Mother- Hair and Nails done/// Gift card to target/// Shirt she wanted

Girlfriend- 100$ gift card to areopostale/// 100$ gift card to finsih line/// 18k gold earrings real nice, she always wears fake gold/// Hair, nails done.
 

Julian

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i got a bunch of stuff from bath an body works for the females in my fam
 
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