"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Christian Troy from Nip Tuck

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Anybody here seen the show Nip Tuck?

First of all…what helps this guy out was his looks in the series…but he also had a charming and amusing personality.


I think what really draws us in to this character was despite whatever what was going for him, he was a really flawed character.


I think of the first episode where he was able to pick up Amber, the blonde at a bar. This show was a hit when it came out…but I think it’s a lot of bad examples…particularly it can get a little too vain.


What are your memories and favorite episodes of this show?







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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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