"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Read an article several months ago telling us to act chivalriously, i have just done some research now at askmen.com, here is their advice

Always open doors

Put on her coat

Stand at attention

Give her your arm

Ask if she needs anything

I am sure there are more things i should do, guys got any ideas? i love doing this sort of thing because i can show the ladies that i am a gentleman who is also very good at gaming them.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Yeah, showing them you're a gentleman is an awesome thing. But don't over do it. Just let this kinda stuff naturally happen. Don't try to hard, because then you look like you're just trying to do all this. Just naturally open doors, do little things, and just make her feel and let her know that you care.
 
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Here We Go Again! Waaaaaaaaaaaagggggghhhhh!

There's that word! GRRRR!

Ok, uh, 1.... 2.... 3.... 4.... alright, I'm good.

Before you go whipping open doors and throwing your coat over puddles...

Start here.

Next time, do a search. Otherwise, I might have a freakin' aneurism. I should've done a search myself when I started that thread... oops.
 
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chivalery is dead, unless your in a relationship with a chick or if your dating a chick. but meeting up with some girl you met this afternoon at walmart; you dont need chivalry.
 
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God_of_getting_layed said:
chivalery is dead, unless your in a relationship with a chick or if your dating a chick. but meeting up with some girl you met this afternoon at walmart; you dont need chivalry.
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which pretty much chivalry isnt dead. it just doesnt imply on casual aquaintances.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I am only 17 and i am of oriental origin, therefore i have yet to enter the world of upper class gentlemen, but i must prepare my self and show every girl i meet that i am a man of class.
Chivalry is not dead, when i was gaming this girl several month ago, i actually acted in a proper manner instead of the usual easy going me, the out come is very powerful couped with my Djing skills, i think she feels very attracted towards me. Therefore i am doing more research and i have struck gold.
Go to Askmen.com and search for chivalry, there are three articles dedicated to this particular subject.
 
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