Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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ROOKIE OF THE YEAR

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Anybody tried Chinese Medication like those black herb medicines, acupunctures, etc. I don't believe any of this stuff. The Chinese docs can tell what's wrong with you just to checking your pulse, (lol, ridiculous). And they assume sometimes or certain illess, Chinese medication worked even better than real medicines. Does anyone believe they work? The problem is that I've searching the internet and there's not a single sight said the medication sucks. Discuss
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ROOKIE OF THE YEAR

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By the way, according to chinese people, when you have a cough, you can't swallow anything cold, sour, sweet, and chicken. Is this true?
 

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ROOKIE OF THE YEAR said:
The problem is that I've searching the internet and there's not a single sight said the medication sucks. Discuss
Maybe it doesn't?
 

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ROOKIE OF THE YEAR said:
Anybody tried Chinese Medication like those black herb medicines, acupunctures, etc. I don't believe any of this stuff. The Chinese docs can tell what's wrong with you just to checking your pulse, (lol, ridiculous). And they assume sometimes or certain illess, Chinese medication worked even better than real medicines. Does anyone believe they work? The problem is that I've searching the internet and there's not a single sight said the medication sucks. Discuss
lol. your post is ridiculous. do some real research instead just jacking up the internet. just because you can't find something on the net means it sucks.
 

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Don't waste your time with chinese medicine, just eat right, and workout regularly. That's all you need.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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While the cosmology behind it all obviously cannot be valid, there is something to it. Over the course of thousands of years, why wouldn't they come up with something useful, even if they can't properly explain it?

A friend of my father's had a tumor in his throat. Western doctors tried everything they could and concluded there was nothing they could do and that he would probably die. He went to Beijing and sought out a renowned doctor of traditional Chinese medicine and after a few months it was reduced from the size of a golfball to the size of a pea.

One of my professors was from China, and he studied an obscure martial art for 16 or so years before becoming a professor. He believed in pretty much all of the superstition behind it, but whether it was true or not, a lot of it worked. He told us that if he started feeling sick, he would just meditate for an hour or two and it would go away (properly circulating his Chi). One day in class he had a bad cold, sneezing a lot and coughing. I came back a few hours later to turn in a paper and he was completely better, tip-top shape.

There is something behind it, I will tell you that. It's just so different from western medicine that it could take a while before it is properly evaluated.
 
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