Chicks Who Diss You . . . Social Interaction

[Strip Club Inspector]

I've had a lot of plates spinning recently and probably circulate around half a dozen or so venues in my off days. I run into chick who basically did not show up for date one time when we had plans. I see her, say hello as I walk past, and quickly move along. I certainly didn't want to get into a lengthy conversation, but I didn't want her to think I was so emotionally hurt that I was going to give her icy stare downs or deliberately ignore her.

Any advice on dealing with this situation to maintain dignity, self respect, alpha status, and other chick options?

 

[everywomanshero]

First, I don't make plans that are dependant upon a woman if I know there is any real chance of her flaking. Instead, I make plans that will be convennient for me irrespective of whether she shows up or not. Make your timebridge something you'd be doing anyway or have her meet you at your place. I break these rules myself, but I know when I do it that there is always some small chance I'll be annoyed, although fortunately no one has flaked in a while now.

 

[DJDamage]

I run into chick who basically did not show up for date one time when we had plans. I see her, say hello as I walk past, and quickly move along.

I think you handled it good. You didn't act bitter or ignored her, you acknowledged her presence and moved on. You don't owe her to stay and chat with her nor should you feel obligated to, after her disrespectful behaviour of not showing up to a date and not informing you.