"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Chicks are laughing at men's OLD profiles

corrector

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women get jaded and bitter by constantly being "used" , you never see a a guy with an abundant love life, of 5 women moan about women on social media do you, the guy thinks its great.


not the same for women, they end up mentally and spiritually destroyed
Why do you think it is like this? We are just wired differently from them? Or is this the Alpha Widow thing?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Who Dares Win

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Why do you think it is like this? We are just wired differently from them? Or is this the Alpha Widow thing?
Men and women are built differently biologically and psychologically.

Women have value for the simple fact of being women when they are young, pretty and fresh while such value slowly decreases when they get older, less attractive and most of all while their goods are given to many men.

Men have no free value given to them at birth (except for great genetics when present), they build their value with their achievements and success and most of all through action and work.

What worked for centuries and basically in every culture and civilization was that men of value committed to women of value while women of value gave themselves to men of value.

Both men and women knew that in order to have a good deal there was a DO and DONT list, and for women the first DONT was giving herself physically to many men that had no intention to commit while for men the first DONT was to investing time and resources to unworthy women unwilling to give themselves to him.
 

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Women want attention and entertainment. OLD gives this to them, it really is the only currency we have... and men just give it away.

My advice is any dude that gets into OLD is wasting their time unless they can make dates and meet up with women. Full disclosure, I have NEVER done this so I am not saying this from any personal experience. But your picture and profile is your handshake... that is all it is. Treat it just like meeting someone in person. If a chick 'matches' you, don't waste time... just arrange a meet up. If she wont, well it's just like a chick that give you her number but won't go out with you. Just forget about her... move onto the next one.

No difference really, accept you can move through a lot more women that you would just living life.
 

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If you're smart you should be able to filter out the time wasters very quickly. Only very clueless guys are going to go back and forth with them for any length of time.
This right here I don't even waste my time, I recently matched with some indian doctor I sent her one message. "You have a really nice smile, we should go zip lining some time. There is a place not to far from both of us with zip lining and a winery nearby if your interested my number is xxx-xxx-xxxx call me and we can schedule something"

This is pretty much my go to, mention something fun to do and plan a date. If they don't respond it's ok because I'm not wasting time with them and for the ones that do respond we can right to meeting up.
 

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I've modified my screening process post-Covid to include a couple introductory messages to get a feel for how they feel about Covid because this can and does severely hamper a date which I don't wanna waste my time on if they are one of those paranoid types.

Hi Convo
Covid Convo
Interests Convo
Logistics Convo
Try to get it all done under 12 interactions - Done.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I've modified my screening process post-Covid to include a couple introductory messages to get a feel for how they feel about Covid because this can and does severely hamper a date which I don't wanna waste my time on if they are one of those paranoid types.

Hi Convo
Covid Convo
Interests Convo
Logistics Convo
Try to get it all done under 12 interactions - Done.
Lotta matches but also dry convo from these women, kind of hard to get motivated when these women are talking about shyt I don't care about
 
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