"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Chick terrible in bed. How to deal??

gray_fox_9

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Hey guys,
So I've been seeing this chick for a couple weeks now. She's 21 and I'm 23. She's a really cool girl and I really like hanging out with her. The only problem is when we have sex she is terrible in bed. We've tried it 3 different times already and I just don't enjoy it at all. She lays there and doesn't make any noise or anything at all. I've never had a chick like this. And I know she isn't a virgin so thats not the case. You guys have any advice on how to break her out of her shell? Any advice is appreciated. Thanks!!!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Slick101

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Again, alot of people are going to tell you things that theyve read .....

Best thing to do is leave her alone let her miss you fvcking her.....

then when you come back try anal and more *******s.....
 

Ace of Flames

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Um................................................ *idea*

TALK TO HER! zomg i iz teh smarty smart guy!

Seriously dude, talk to her about it. Tell her what you like and guide her through it. Teach her the best ways to make love. You could mold this girl into a sex fiend suited just for you.

Think about it. You'll realize what to do.
 

gray_fox_9

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Well I've addressed that she doesn't make any noise and bed and her response was " Be more of a man"?????? WTF......LOL.......I get her off two or three times but I don't finish and I need to be more of a man??? Chicks are nuts.....lol.....
 

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A few minutes into it, just tell her "Ok, it's your turn on top", then lay on your back, drag her onto you and wait for her to start moving.

If she doesn't get the hint, then start directing and telling her what you want.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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What's her address? I'll make a housecall. :p
 

gray_fox_9

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
What's her address? I'll make a housecall. :p
Well if she doesn't figure out how to make sex fun soon, you can have her lol :p
 

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this is a phrase i use ... "log"
people are what they are.
 

gray_fox_9

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DjDan said:
i dont know you but when a chick tells you that you need to be more of a man, that's a bad thing.

basically you ain't hitting it that well either... from the sounds of it, her ex boyfriend was a real aggresive motherfvcker who would slam her down and pin her down and just fvck her brains out like there was no tommorow..

you on the other hand, want to make sex a 'jointed' thing...

try slamming her against a door frame leaving her with bruises on her shoulder while you ram her from behind, i bet you she will appreciate it and won't question your manhood after that.

be a man, take this female rough. i had a similar experience, i used to think she was bad in bed, it was me, not being aggresive enough. once you start slamming her around, she WILL start to scream.

Interesting point of view. I've never had a chick tell me that before which is I why I wouldn't think of this. I'll have to give it a try and see if it changes things. Thanks for the good advice!!
 

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gray_fox_9 said:
Hey guys,
So I've been seeing this chick for a couple weeks now. She's 21 and I'm 23. She's a really cool girl and I really like hanging out with her. The only problem is when we have sex she is terrible in bed. We've tried it 3 different times already and I just don't enjoy it at all. She lays there and doesn't make any noise or anything at all. I've never had a chick like this. And I know she isn't a virgin so thats not the case. You guys have any advice on how to break her out of her shell? Any advice is appreciated. Thanks!!!
How do you want her to act? Request it. Make your sexual life how you want it - this is your world.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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While you are in bed, roll next to her, and throw her up on you, should give her enough of a hint to do something
 

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Yo I Love Latin Woman Fcuk!!!

I Want A Latin Beatch Noww!!! Lol
 
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