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Chick Refuses to Initiate contact

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pyros said:
It seems you're a bit stubborn.

We all agree that unless she's really interested, she's not gonna contact you first in the begining. By begining I mean: BEFORE YOUR FIRST OR SECOND DATE.

If after this time she doesnt initiate contact, SHE IS MORE THAN LIKELY NOT INTO YOU or SHE'S A DAMN MANIPULATOR or SHE'S SEING SOME OTHER GUY, or ALL OF THIS TOGETHER. In either case she's not worth it cause the amount of trouble she'll give you is too much.

Yes, there could be one girl out of 100 that eventhough she likes you a lot doesnt initiate contact, but that is a very rare exception. If they're interested, from medium interest to high, they cannot resist to contact you, text you, send you emoticons, send you pictures...etc. That is how it works.

Lmao

Pyros , i can assure you that you will not receive that level of interest from any woman that you actually want until you have fvcked her
or at the very least had some kind of intimate physical contact with her

so if you want to keep being "stubborn" and keep letting those fatties initiate contact with you then you crack on bro

my sights are aimed a little higher and unfortunately a high quality HB 7 / 8 /9 isn't going to be chasing you around like a litte girl in the school yard

they just have too many options it doesnt happen

you gotta make sure she knows that you are THE BEST OPTION by whatever means necessary

wether I've done a good enough job showing this chick that I'm the best option remains to be seen

i suspect possibly not but who cares thats what you got plates for :D
 

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Valid points from everyone but i do have to agree a bit with Pyros. It doesnt matter is shes a 8, 9 , 10...11. If she has the hots for you, she will initiate contact by "innocent" ways. For example, a simple "hey" by text, they wont call you but they will definitely text you. I have had very hot women initiate contact with me when i havent hit them up. I will say though, in the very beginning, yes you have to be the one taking charge to set up dates and so forth but after that, she should be thinking about you and hitting you up because your on her mind. This is why many times the best course of action is to back off and let her initiate contact with you which reveals her interest level. It's a hard thing to do because your mind starts running around on you and you begin to wonder... Is there another guy? I guess she doesnt give a fvck about me etc. This is part of the reason guys who genuinely dont give a fvck do well with Women because he wont think twice about her and she ends up hitting him up while he's pretty indifferent towards her.

Like i said, its really hard to do with a girl you really like and find beautiful. Emotions take over and hard to keep at bay. Although i have loads and loads of options, there is always one girl that rocks my boat and i start to act like a d*ckless chump. Its like a War... Let the (enemy) reveal their hand first to see who strikes first. Women are very emotional so,... They will cave in first if the interest level is high enough. I have had 4 women track me down through the internet trying to find out about me and why i havent hit them up lol those were 7's and 8's, the 9's and (so called) 10's werent like that but they definitely hit me up after a while when i didnt reach out to them
 
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