"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Chick I talk to Might like someone else?

RiceandChicken

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Title is as is. This chick I talk to might like some one else, well, that's what I got from one of the messages she sent me. My question is, if she actually did like someone, could I still play the game on her? Or would I be considered dead toast? I'd really like to turn her in an FWB/FB. Just a little stumped here. Thanks for help. Need anymore information about the situation, just let me know and I'll get it to ya so I can get some help. Thanks guys.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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SJ413

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Depends on what you want out of her. Personally, I'd say plow on and give it a shot as long as she ain't jumping some other dudes bones. Aint like you've got anything to loose. If you get a clear rejection though, just move on. Plain and simple.
 

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Alright, thanks man. I'll defiantly keep plowing on. I want to f*** her. Pretty apparent haha. And yep, I don't have a thing to lose, so why not. Besides, she talks me a lot more then the 'guy she likes'. Or she coulda said that just to see how I'd react or something. Who knows. Haven't gotten a harsh/don't talk to me ever again rejection kind of type yet, so I'm in the clear.
More advice is appreciated guys, thanks.
 

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It's really up to her aint it? You do what a DJ does...she responds or she don't. Even if she likes the other dude more, she might do you anyway...then you move on.....
 

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Alright, thanks guys. Ima just keep on doing what I'm doing. We had a good Convo just 20 minutes ago. So Thats good. Could I get some tips on gauging interest level and facial expressions(knowing if she's interested in the Convo/interaction or wanting to gtfo).
Thanks again. Will keep y'all posted on how things are going between me and her on this thread. Gotta keep on plowing ahead. Dont F up. Yep.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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