Hey I am looking for wingmen in the Chicago area to hang out and hit the town with I am new to this game an have read the DJ /bible and am looking for others here in Chicago to go out and have fun with this...thanks
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.