It happened to me at the supermarket once, just not in those exact words. I admit I was checking out pretty obviously but can a woman really complain if she's wearing spandex that hug her a$$ and a tight top? Either way, I will never do that again.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Checking girls out
- Thread starter flyinshark
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
RBB
Senior Don Juan
Smile when you stare. I do that and when most of them catch me, they smile back. Even though they keep walking. :crackup:
I walk around smiling a lot too (not overdone with teeth and all. Just a slight grin). Old people are suspicious of me. It's great!
I walk around smiling a lot too (not overdone with teeth and all. Just a slight grin). Old people are suspicious of me. It's great!
HeartlessBtch
Don Juan
From a girl's point of view it depends how you stare. Of you have youer eyes wide open, your jaw about to hit the floor and drool is coming out, on top of that you are following her everywhere she goes then it's time for the chick to RUN. See, here's the thing if you look and you got the confidence, girls don't care how much you look, in fact we like it when we know we look good, and by staring you are doing so. On the other hand if you got that desperate look and you are butt ugly then...yuo are outta luck
Ol'BlueEyes
Senior Don Juan
strange women
I'll change my POV the next time a hottie comes up to me and tells me "HEY!!! You're not supposed to ignore me!!!"
There's nothing wrong with checking out the goods. Good grief, isn't that how the ball gets rolling?
I have yet to see this 'ignore them and they'll flock to you' theory work. If you ignore women, especially ones you pass on the street or in a store, chances are they'll reciprocate.
I'll change my POV the next time a hottie comes up to me and tells me "HEY!!! You're not supposed to ignore me!!!"
There's nothing wrong with checking out the goods. Good grief, isn't that how the ball gets rolling?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Agree with HeartlessBtch. "How" a man looks at a woman is very important.
If you want to come off as a creepy dude, keep staring at women for long periods of time.
If you want to come off as a sleazy, disrespectful, ghetto fool, keep looking at women's tits and ass.
If you want to come off as a normal, decent, "qualifying" guy, the best way to look at a woman might be to just take occasional glances at her. If she catches you, go ahead and smile at her to signal that you're digging her.
If you're going to play the "ignoring" game, good luck. A woman will notice you regardless of whether you're looking at her or ignoring her if she thinks you're attractive. But if your looks are not that noticable to begin with, it might be better to actually look at her and hopefully catch her eye and smile at her.
If you want to come off as a creepy dude, keep staring at women for long periods of time.
If you want to come off as a sleazy, disrespectful, ghetto fool, keep looking at women's tits and ass.
If you want to come off as a normal, decent, "qualifying" guy, the best way to look at a woman might be to just take occasional glances at her. If she catches you, go ahead and smile at her to signal that you're digging her.
If you're going to play the "ignoring" game, good luck. A woman will notice you regardless of whether you're looking at her or ignoring her if she thinks you're attractive. But if your looks are not that noticable to begin with, it might be better to actually look at her and hopefully catch her eye and smile at her.
Well in my case, the lady was probably in her late 30s or early 40s, so I wasn't looking to get her number. I was just looking for the sake of looking. She later apologized for overreacting and I apologized for giving her the wrong idea. In the end, it just wasn't worth it.
selfmademob
Banned
penis power
don't apologize for your actions, just d1ck slap her and show her whos boss
don't apologize for your actions, just d1ck slap her and show her whos boss