"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The Master Disaster

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Okay, I've been reading what people have been saying on if they like them or not. There are a couple ways to do this through body language, and something I like to call CUs (Check-Ups). CUs something I've played with for the last 4 years, they work 100% of the time without fail. Intrested? Here is what they are: They are short little phrases that let a girl expand on what you say or just give you a 1 word line and move on. Here is an Example:

Her: Thats a good job
You: Do you know what my middle name is?
Her: What? or Your middle name
You: Its Amazing.
Either she'll expand and use it later on (Like)
or she'll give you a one word answer. (Not Like)

Actual Event:
(Couple days after doing the amazing line)
Her: Are you seriously done with all those chapters?
Me: Do you know whose middle name is amazing?
Her: Me.
Me: Are you serious we both have the same middle name.

They work like magic 100% of the time. From that moment I got that reaction from her I knew she was intrested.

another example
(something in common)
Her: Me too.
You: Are you thinking what i'm thinking
Her: What?
You: Slumber Party.
Either she'll expand on the slumber party (Like)
or she'll say some negative comment on the slumber party (Not Like).

Actual Event:
Me: Slumber Party
Her: Can I bring the popcorn?
Me: Only if I can bring the pillows.
Her: Deal.

A funny one that I didn't expect to work was wait for a good line to say "Your Mom" and if she's intrested she'll say oh yea and do the same back to you. The whole time i'm thinking (Hot Gang Bang) I made her smile the WHOLE week with those.

They show you like to have fun and have a good sense of humor. While you spark a good fun conversation on top of it. She wont know what hit her you'll know exactly how she feels about you in less then it takes to turn a car on. This also helps in getting her more attacted to you. I 100% guarentee that she'll put a smile on. Again i've tested over 20 women with this and I've gotten 20 dates from those women. 1 thing to remember is when you deliver CUs do it with a smile.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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The Master Disaster

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The basic Idea is to use irony. Why would a 16 or 17 year old male want to have a slumber party with a girl? Which parents would give the middle name Amazing? They're assentionally like an echo. You send it out and you listen for what comes back. If its 1 echo or a bunch of echoes. To understand how this works is you have to look at it as a girl. A guy says some ironic line that couldn't be possible then allows for the girl to elaborate and use her imagination. If you want some more examples:

The Middle Name one (Not Amazing):

Her: Are You Serious?
You: Do you know what my middle name is?
Her: What?
You: Something to pertains to that.

Actual Example:

Her: Are You Serious?
Me: Do you know what my middle name is?
Her: What?
Me: I'm just better then "Amy"

You only need a select few. The reason why is if you use them a lot she'll never take you serious and thats not the point. If you don't like any of these I'll give you some tips on making them.

1. Irony: its the backbone of comedy a Grandma in a Gun fight is ironic. Get the drift?

2. The more abscure the better. You driving cross country for some corn on the cob.

3. Random: Washing Machines

4. 4 lines works the best. They are quick and to the point. They don't bore her. Think of it like this:
1st- She makes a comment
2nd- You respond with a question
3rd- She Responds
4th- Something off the wall and ironic

I think making your own is the best way to get a girl, but you can also use mine if you can't come up with any.
 

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Originally posted by GTac01
...and thats what i call the Disaster Method. Thanks for sharing with us your findings... This is gold guys!
Thank You
Just trying to help.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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