"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Check out this artical about YOUR EGO

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Snow Plowman

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I will read it when I get home...EGO is something that is starting to get talked about more and more now in the community. I remember writing a post about babies

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=115091

They don't have a EGO which is there story of how the became. Identifying yourself as a DJ/PUA is just an external title and when you think that and get rejected your ego gets bruised. Sometimes you don't want to bruise your ego and so you never approach unless you know the chick is interested.

Two things everyone will never lie and say is "They can't fight" and "They can't pickup chicks".

I'll read that ego article later tonight and post back...
 
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