Cheating as a revange, would she comprehend ?

[good_man]

I am very hurt inside because I've always been faithful or (faithFOOL?)

I love her too much I and could never divorce
But the pain is very strong I think I will go crazy

I think cheating her as a revange is the medice

Now I wonder if she would comprehend if she found it out ?

 

[GloriouslyInsane]

She would divorce you for all you got.

 

[good_man]

You mean a woman wants a faithFOOL husband regardless of her being or not faithful ?

 

[GloriouslyInsane]

No i mean you shouldn't had married her in the first place.Anyway you should divorce her (after you collected enough evidence on her cheating,and i mean solid evidence if it goes down to court),so you can bail without an economical or psychological scratch.You would cheat on her just to spite her,which means you don't really love her anyway,neither you should.Is the juice worth the squeeze? Do you really believe trying to save your marriage is worth the effort?

 

[jonwon]

I am very hurt inside because I've always been faithful or (faithFOOL?)

I love her too much I and could never divorce
But the pain is very strong I think I will go crazy

I think cheating her as a revange is the medice

Now I wonder if she would comprehend if she found it out ?

wont make you feel better trust me in i know, been down this path myself.

Best thing you can do is add up your future prospects,can you forgive her and i mean FORGIVE her i dont mean saying yes cos you dont want to loose her i mean can you inner MAN forgiver her?

If not time to move on and get some you time, this hurt will pass, it does for most, your not the first guy and you wont be the last.

Try not to focus on her problems, instead look at your self and improve where you went wrong at least your next relationship will have a better chance of success, if you move on! if you dont move on then you need to imporve, but then again so does she, a cheating women is not a good women in my book no matter how much she changes, but thats just me, i dont have the defining answer on this only YOU do!

Your young still count stock of the results and find a solution only you can do, this is your life challange you need to face it to grow, it hurts but you will learn and reflect on this, has your future self.

 

[good_man]

Best thing you can do is add up your future prospects,can you forgive her and i mean FORGIVE her i dont mean saying yes cos you dont want to loose her i mean can you inner MAN forgiver her?

I tried to forget, not forgiving, but when I wake up in the nigh
this thougts came back stronger

On the other hand, I can imagining divorcing her

 

[jonwon]

Best thing you can do is add up your future prospects,can you forgive her and i mean FORGIVE her i dont mean saying yes cos you dont want to loose her i mean can you inner MAN forgiver her?

I tried to forget, not forgiving, but when I wake up in the nigh
this thougts came back stronger

On the other hand, I can imagining divorcing her

your pain man, ask this stuff:

Will she stop seeing him?
Do you know for definate it is an affair, your the guy who posted before!
Seems you find out then, sorry but better to know i guess, if it is then it is an affair and not a quick F**K in a week moment, you see what i mean, there are feelings involved now and how involved is she?

All i know i have seen this many times, the women say 'i love you! and i want you to forgive me' only to be sleeping with the D**K again and this time she keeps it more covered!

To me if she has cheated i think you need to consider if you want to share your life with a women at the very least, speak to a counsellor, this stuff is heavy these forums are not the place.

See a counsellor for yourself get there advice theya re really good and act on what they say!

This site may not help you either posts about screwing married women is not what you need, pass this by come back later if your free and get some advice from a better source, just DO IT ok and i mean that.

if she has gone out of the marriage alos i am pritty certain she cant screw you over and at the very least you have grounds for divorce right there, get some advice and i dont mean from the internet, turn off the pc and get some face to face prof' guidence, i wont give you advice again, since you have not got this point ok.