"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Cheated.

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So my girlfriend who I just started dating about two weeks ago was gone for the weekend and I went to my friend's place for a party. This girl kept trying to kiss me, apparently she still liked me cos we hooked up a few times over summer and I had a huge crush on her. So we're sitting outside smoking and she keeps trying to kiss me, she's like.. "i can kiss you, but you can't kiss me. you have a gf now". and i kept pushing her away telling her to stop. and then for some reason i stopped trying to push her away. she kept kissing my cheeks... and then started licking my ear and it just got a little extreme. and then so i have no clue what i was thinking (maybe i still like her), and we started making out for like a minute. and then i was like no, i can't do this, and we went inside. so what do you guys think i should do? this girl won't tell anyone, i know that for a fact. but i really want this relationship with my new girlfriend to work. deep down i probably have some feelings for that girl i made out with last night and i should've controlled myself. should i just keep it a secret? should i tell her? should i break up with her? i don't know :/ i really want things to work between my gf and i.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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So you're exclusive with a girl and cheated on her but you want things to work out between you two?

TBH if you're 20 and your still going to party's w/o your gf then I'd suggest you spin plates unless the both of you are commited because you should've controlled your self better and it almost sounds like you still might have something for this girl now that she's interested in you. Sounds like you did something a girl would do when she's seduced by a guy...
 
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you can't manufacture a relationship to work. when you really have fo und the right one, you will know. it's nothing to think about. you aren't really tempted to do crap.

you are stil a kid. enjoy it. spin plates. tap ass.
 
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That is good that you are feeling some guilt about what you've done. You have to make sure that you are right with God first before worrying about any other relationship to work out because that's the only relationship that counts. Why dont you invite Jesus into your life.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Luke Skywalker said:
That is good that you are feeling some guilt about what you've done. You have to make sure that you are right with God first before worrying about any other relationship to work out because that's the only relationship that counts. Why dont you invite Jesus into your life.
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shouldnt preaching religion with the intention of becoming a pvssy qualify as an instant ban on a site called "sosuave"?
 
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1. Don't tell her. Morality is overrated, get on with your life.

2. Tell her. Strain your relationship. It might break, might make it stronger. Who knows.

Those are your two choices. Pretty simple. Really depends on the girl I guess.
 
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Real said:
shouldnt preaching religion with the intention of becoming a pvssy qualify as an instant ban on a site called "sosuave"?
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Proverbs 1:7 "The fear of the LORD is the beginning of knowledge: but fools despise wisdom and instruction."
 
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God doesn't exist. Wake up.

If he/she/it does, you don't know anything about him/her/it.

The one you know about was made up.

I can do it too.

I'm the son of a a giant chicken that created the universe.

(She laid an egg and it hatched...and then the universe came.)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Alkali said:
God doesn't exist. Wake up.

If he/she/it does, you don't know anything about him/her/it.

The one you know about was made up.

I can do it too.

I'm the son of a a giant chicken that created the universe.

(She laid an egg and it hatched...and then the universe came.)
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But the Bible says that atheists and people who dont believe in God are fools.

Psalm 14:1 "The fool has said in his heart, There is no God."

Psalm 53:1 "The fool has said in his heart, There is no God."

The reason that you want to believe there is no God is because you want to be deluded that you will not be judged for all your sins that you have committed in your life

It says so in the Bible too....

Psalm 14:1 "...They are corrupt, they have done abominable works, there is none that does good.

Psalm 53:1 "...Corrupt are they, and have done abominable iniquity: there is none that does good."

Continuation of concept, apart from God our works are as filthy rags, even our best works are marred by sin.

Romans 3:23 "For ALL have sinned and come short of the Glory of God"

That means good works cant save you from the day of wrath - only God's mercy can:

John 3:16 "For God so loved the world that he gave his only begotten son that whosoever believes in him should not perish, but have everlasting life".

Romans 3:24 "Being justified freely by HIs Grace, through the Redemption that is in Christ Jesus".

What can good works on itself do, nothing:

Romans 3:20 "Therefore by the deeds of the Law there shall be no flesh justified in His sight: for by the Law is the knowledge of sin."

You need to confess, repent of sin and receive Jesus into your life. That is the only solution.

There is going to be a judgement and day or reckoning - the question is, are you ready for it or are not sure where you'll end up when your time comes?
 
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Who wrote the Bible?

"God"

What proof is there of "God?"

Is there more proof of him than my holy chicken?

I wrote a book about my chicken (I'm her prophet) so don't throw scripture at me.

Alkali 14:2 "Those who don't believe in the chicken are doomed."

Did Cain have sex with Eve? Where'd his kids come from?

What about Noah and his family aboard his boat? Did their kids "do it" with each other?

So, according to "God," incest and genocide (wiping out the world) is ok?

Hitler's not so bad! There is no day of judgement.

What awaits in the next life, if there is one, is as much a mystery to you as it is to me.

I enjoy hearing your guesses though.
 
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God is perfect.

God is jealous.

Jealousy (envy) is an imperfection.

So God isn't perfect?

Ergo, he's no better than I am. Maybe worse?

The Bible confuses me at times. But alas, I am merely a man!
 
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