"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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redbullfbu

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when u talk to chicks online do u try to spit game? in my opinion its hard cuz u cant say things with a tone. also are u the 1 that im's them? i try not to unless its really important cuz it makes me seem needy
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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shut it down for 3 months and you'll see what a difference IM makes.
F U C K ALL!!

why..because I turned it off for 3 months.
 

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why chat online when you could be getting real Puzzy?

EDIT: But if your going to do well, yea spit the game. IF you want to talk you can start the convo by saying something original like... "Thats a interesting name" or whatever, instead of the

You:Hey
Her:Hey
You:Sup?
Her:nm you?
You:same
Her:cool
if your worried about seeming too needy, say "hold on there so many people talking to me right now" hey she doesn't know!!:crackup:
 

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yea i never do that hey sup crap its jus to boring....if a girl ims me askin sup i jus say im busy doing something then they proceed to "what?" haha it works like a charm sometimes they get so interested if u play it rite
 

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I never start conversations with anyone at all, unless I specifically need to talk to them for a particular reason. If they don't talk, I don't care.

IM obviously doesn't work as well as in person, I just mildly flirt, make funny comments, and act ****y/borderline arrogant. No one cares because its online.

And don't stay on for too long or reply instantly like you're doing nothing but talking to them. Thats it.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I never start conversations with anyone at all, unless I specifically need to talk to them for a particular reason. If they don't talk, I don't care.
I'm with this guy on starting conversations, but that just might be some of my talking-to-other-people-phobia that carried over from my AFC and beyond days.

I don't like meeting people online, after I've met someone in person they get a feel of how I talk and my sence of humor so they generally get my jokes and the such online but I try to avoid being online too often.
 
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