"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Vikman

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I've been chatting with a woman I met online. I think she's awesome. She lives close to me, but she is currently on assignment and not going to be back home until May.

Until then, we're relying only on communication methods to remain in contact: phone, online chatting, etc. What should we be talking about now, since she ain't coming here till May? Specifically, what should we say to progress things between us?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Kailex

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Vikman said:
I've been chatting with a woman I met online. I think she's awesome. She lives close to me, but she is currently on assignment and not going to be back home until May.

Until then, we're relying only on communication methods to remain in contact: phone, online chatting, etc. What should we be talking about now, since she ain't coming here till May? Specifically, what should we say to progress things between us?
Uhh, you should start dating other women who are in your immediate area... at least 2 or 3, starting THIS week.

Please tell me you two don't chat online EVERYDAY.
If you are struggling to think of things to talk about now... I can only imagine what it's going to be like when you two "meet up".
 
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