changing my attitude

[mike1426]

hey, i am 18 years old ( in a few days) and am a senior in hs. my prop is that not only am i shy, but if i ever talk to a girl all i keep thinking about is what they are thinking of me and that fu*ks me up. i work in a drug store where tons of hot girls come in, and you can tell they are fliting, but i never say anything cause im a *****, and i look like im 12.

i know that its in the "bible" or whatnot but can any of you give me some tips from experience on how maybe i can change my attitude so that i dont care what they think?

thanks
Mike

 

[Wonderbread166]

You answered your own question! Thou shalt not ask stupid questions before thou hast not read thy bible

 

[comic_relief]

Mike, you think to much. Also become aware of your nonverbal communication (posture and normal motions that you do). This is very important because it tells alot about you.

I treat females, just like my male friends.
Females are people, too. Just they have boobs and pu$$ies.

Also try the DJ boot camp. That will help you alot. I am going to try it soon as I get some free time.

 

[JSH]

Originally posted by mike1426
hey, i am 18 years old ( in a few days) and am a senior in hs. my prop is that not only am i shy, but if i ever talk to a girl all i keep thinking about is what they are thinking of me and that fu*ks me up. i work in a drug store where tons of hot girls come in, and you can tell they are fliting, but i never say anything cause im a *****, and i look like im 12.

i know that its in the "bible" or whatnot but can any of you give me some tips from experience on how maybe i can change my attitude so that i dont care what they think?

thanks
Mike

So that you don't care what they think. GET A LIFE

Now that was not meant to be rude, but be too busy and to content with your life to care what they think. Read the Bible, although the HS Bible is slightly shorter and maybe slightly more relevant. You can download the full one in word format, if you cant spend the time online and come back to it at your leisure.


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Read some of the posts by Pook on being a man and killling desperation. He is one awesome logically sound motivator. Deagleclaw's is heavy, remember, if people insult you, do not take it personally, they are trying to help yo to learn how to take it and to stand up for yourself.

Good luck and dont get frustrated with people whining about newbies and do follow the helpful bits for newbies as they are there to help you and to prevent you from annoying others.