Theres a girl who was into me a week ago. Before i went clubbing. She's probably not into me now cause i talked a bunch of **** about how fun i was gonna be, and i wasnt. So now she's kind of giving me the cold shoulder. What should i do?
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.