"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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niceguy91

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hey guys... one of my friends sutmbled on this fourm so i thought id' check it out. well i'm 16 and i'ma junior in highschool.

freshmen year i started out a total nerd. i'm indian btw like from india, came here when i was 5 1/2. but n e ways i've changed alot, i'm not a total dork like i was... i have plenty of friends tht are girls, and alot tht are pretty hot also. i can talk to em but like thats it. i cant make that oh man this guys the **** kinda impression. i'm the nice laid back kinda guy, real outgoing, partier, and wear preppy clothes. i've had grls tell me i'm really cute/hot...but they're the not so good looking ones. idk wut to do next. i've got the clothes, and some attitued, but i'm not confident.

i wann ab able to walk up 2 any grl and walk away satisfied.. any one who'll b a coach for me? cz i could sure use one. lol thanks alot guys. later
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I-tallionStallion

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Read the HS Bible first...start with okay looking girls and move up to build confidence. I got on this site(under a different name) when i was your age. BEST THING YOU WILL EVER DO. Read this site religiously, and soon you will be jumping out your pants to try this $hit...it will take a while but when you get it, you will really get it haha
 

DJ_Matthew

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niceguy91 said:
hey guys... one of my friends sutmbled on this fourm so i thought id' check it out. well i'm 16 and i'ma junior in highschool.

freshmen year i started out a total nerd. i'm indian btw like from india, came here when i was 5 1/2. but n e ways i've changed alot, i'm not a total dork like i was... i have plenty of friends tht are girls, and alot tht are pretty hot also. i can talk to em but like thats it. i cant make that oh man this guys the **** kinda impression. i'm the nice laid back kinda guy, real outgoing, partier, and wear preppy clothes. i've had grls tell me i'm really cute/hot...but they're the not so good looking ones. idk wut to do next. i've got the clothes, and some attitued, but i'm not confident.

i wann ab able to walk up 2 any grl and walk away satisfied.. any one who'll b a coach for me? cz i could sure use one. lol thanks alot guys. later
Confidence comes from experience. That's it.

Take a firefighter for example. He's very confident when he's fighting a fire, but if he had to defuse a bomb, he would be scared to death. If a bomb diffuser had to defuse a bomb, he would feel confident, but if he had to fight a fire, he would be scared to death.
 

john paul

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yea i agree with stallion, gotta start with the not so good looking ones. You will get valuable experience and by the time collage comes around you will be who you want to be.
 
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