SharinganUser
Master Don Juan
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For thousands of years, many kung fu practitioners have believed that the way to enlightenment and inner peace is through forging the body with exercise. What does this have to do with picking up women? Well sometimes you have to change things on the outside to change things on the inside.
A good way to change your innerself is to change your environment. Despite what some people may or may not think. Some environments are just not good for meeting women, and this affects your inner game in a negative way.
I've always loved foriegn women, but since this illusively obvious point illuded me for so long, I never maximized my success by surrounding myself with them. I only focused on changing myself and didn't think to change my surroundings.
A friend of mine and I were disscussing two schools of thought on meeting chinese women(we are traveling in China now). One school of thought dictates that you should go to western bars to meet chinese women because the women that go to those bars want to meet foreign guys. The other school of thought is that you should go to chinese bars where you and your crew are the only westerners in the club.
We both agree'd that the best way to meet Chinese women is to go to Chinese bars. If you go to a western bar only 20% of people(60% white guys 20% western girls 20% chinese girls) there want to meet foreigners, but you are going to have to compete for that 20%. If you go to a bar where you are the only westerner in there, the percentages of how many girls want to meet you is almost irrelevent because wether it's 90% or 1%, you have them all to your self.
Every western bar I've been to (cept 1) has been a disgrace. Nothing but UFO (Ugly Fat Old) guys and weirdos with hot girls.
That is just an example, the principle works in any situation. It's not just about being rare, it's about being rare AND doing things you enjoy while surrounding yourself with women. Those two things are great on their own but combining them is a very potent weapon.
It is just as important to change your environment as it is to change your inside because each one has an effect on the other.
A good way to change your innerself is to change your environment. Despite what some people may or may not think. Some environments are just not good for meeting women, and this affects your inner game in a negative way.
I've always loved foriegn women, but since this illusively obvious point illuded me for so long, I never maximized my success by surrounding myself with them. I only focused on changing myself and didn't think to change my surroundings.
A friend of mine and I were disscussing two schools of thought on meeting chinese women(we are traveling in China now). One school of thought dictates that you should go to western bars to meet chinese women because the women that go to those bars want to meet foreign guys. The other school of thought is that you should go to chinese bars where you and your crew are the only westerners in the club.
We both agree'd that the best way to meet Chinese women is to go to Chinese bars. If you go to a western bar only 20% of people(60% white guys 20% western girls 20% chinese girls) there want to meet foreigners, but you are going to have to compete for that 20%. If you go to a bar where you are the only westerner in there, the percentages of how many girls want to meet you is almost irrelevent because wether it's 90% or 1%, you have them all to your self.
Every western bar I've been to (cept 1) has been a disgrace. Nothing but UFO (Ugly Fat Old) guys and weirdos with hot girls.
That is just an example, the principle works in any situation. It's not just about being rare, it's about being rare AND doing things you enjoy while surrounding yourself with women. Those two things are great on their own but combining them is a very potent weapon.
It is just as important to change your environment as it is to change your inside because each one has an effect on the other.