"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Chances Are, You're Not Hot Enough For Her

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"Hot" to a woman means: extremely good looking, A list actor, musician, singer.

It can also mean: hottest guy in the room.

It can also mean: most powerful man in the room or organization or division.

It CAN mean you are extremely wealthy. However, only if tied to one of the 3 categories above.
Ex: Bill Gates is not "hot" even though he is a billionaire many times over.

Become hot according to the criteria above (the more the better), watch the objections and test slip away. And the girls will come to you.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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MatureDJ

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"Hot" to a woman means: extremely good looking, A list actor, musician, singer.

It can also mean: hottest guy in the room.

It can also mean: most powerful man in the room or organization or division.

It CAN mean you are extremely wealthy. However, only if tied to one of the 3 categories above.
Ex: Bill Gates is not "hot" even though he is a billionaire many times over.

Become hot according to the criteria above (the more the better), watch the objections and test slip away. And the girls will come to you.
Fapping is so much easier than the hassle of attaining those things that one has not been genetically endowed with.
 

flowtheory

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I just want to be hot enough for myself. Who cares what she wants? Because if she’s really hot it’s definitely more than just your looks she’s after...
 

DEEZEDBRAH

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"Hot" to a woman means: extremely good looking, A list actor, musician, singer.

It can also mean: hottest guy in the room.

It can also mean: most powerful man in the room or organization or division.

It CAN mean you are extremely wealthy. However, only if tied to one of the 3 categories above.
Ex: Bill Gates is not "hot" even though he is a billionaire many times over.

Become hot according to the criteria above (the more the better), watch the objections and test slip away. And the girls will come to you.
Missing the point.

We're in a feminine imperative. Our laws pander to the biological strategy.

Women procreate with more (not less) violent men since the dawn of time.

I don't care what women think norbher biological strategy.

Her fertility is declining. SMV is failing her. Better, younger, hotter is on the way up.

Its a #s game. Spam approach. Swipe right at life. Obv calibrate but, women are number two to your path and purpose.

The Socrates story of drowning Plato to show the importance of the pursuit in seeking self knowledge.

Know thy self.

A woman seeking self knowledge should be the mark. A woman who explores consciousness.

Sex appeal makes women into a commodity (IG ass pics). I don't care how normalized this becomes. Its not an argument.

Ass pics don't get the ring unless you are a cuck.

A woman is not your purpose. Men need to adapt and step up. To be blunt, the lack of focus or men attempting to be pretty catering to the feminine biological strategy therein lies the problem.
 

DEEZEDBRAH

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I just want to be hot enough for myself. Who cares what she wants? Because if she’s really hot it’s definitely more than just your looks she’s after...
Not doing it right.

Yes, take a shower. Lift heavy.

If your aim is to be pretty, you are missing the boat.

The clock is ticking. Find your purpose. Monopolize. Reap rewards.

Check Way of the Superior man by David Deida.

Pursue excellence. Chase Excellency not women.

Set yourself apart from every other cuck.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I've heard women say "OMG there are like no hot guys here".

Physical attraction is objective as hell.

Even with status she has to be able to see what can be gained from it (usually validation)

With money, it works best when you share the same circle.
 
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