“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Center/Frame recovery in an LTR...

wifehunter

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Being single is great!!! If something throws me off center, I can disappear for days to recover. But, in an LTR, I imagine getting away is not so easy.

So my question is this... Those of you in an LTR... How do you manage!?!?
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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It's the difference between a part time job and a full time job. You don't get the chance to recover. Need to be on the top of your game all the time. You can talk to your buddies, but never show weakness in front of her
 

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Here's the secret.

You learn boundaries, you learn to filter through the good and the bad women efficiently, and eventually if your lucky enough you find a women very close to being your ideal "perfect" mate. This all occurs well before the LTR stage and where most men fvck up myself included.
 

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Being single is great!!! If something throws me off center, I can disappear for days to recover. But, in an LTR, I imagine getting away is not so easy.

So my question is this... Those of you in an LTR... How do you manage!?!?
Be with someone you don't have to be game mode all the time, IE: they have your back. A real LTR will see you weak at times, of course you have to apply some game to maintain attraction. But they will see the real you. If your not with a female shark or predator you will be ok.
 

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Thanks guys,
Here's the secret.

You learn boundaries, you learn to filter through the good and the bad women efficiently, and eventually if your lucky enough you find a women very close to being your ideal "perfect" mate. This all occurs well before the LTR stage and where most men fvck up myself included.
She's an actual sweetie. And, we're both crazy about each other. Her shyness throws me off at times. It's my own personal insecurities, and disbelief in the reality of the situation. I just need to play it off like it's a normal everyday thing, when I know it's not.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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