"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Censored Question! This is facism!!!
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
comic_relief
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dumba$$ it was closed for a reason just like this thread will be shortly
Have a nice day
BTW this is not a democracy with freedom of speech this is a site created by Allen. Him or his mods can close a thread whenever they damn well please.
I am just waiting for one of our nazi moderators to close this thread.
Go Nazi's... I mean moderators
Have a nice day
BTW this is not a democracy with freedom of speech this is a site created by Allen. Him or his mods can close a thread whenever they damn well please.
I am just waiting for one of our nazi moderators to close this thread.
Go Nazi's... I mean moderators
Francisco d'Anconia
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So out of curiosity, why are you so interested in that question?
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1) I don't think you know what the word "Fascism" actually means.
2) Censorship doesn't apply to privately owned entities, like internet forums.
3) What the hell was going thru your mind when you posted that question?
2) Censorship doesn't apply to privately owned entities, like internet forums.
3) What the hell was going thru your mind when you posted that question?
diablo
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I'm taking the blame for closing this thread.
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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